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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 506218" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I'm kind of thinking that, too, CiVa- but if I call and give that message to staff in the facility while PO has sent them an email saying he's picking up difficult child to take hime to GH, then what happens when I get there? They need to have some authority telling them I am legally allowed to pick difficult child, I think. Never mind that they don't have anything stating otherwise. Mybe I'll just leave VM messages tomorrow that I'll be there Fri am to pick difficult child up and unless someone else shows up with a court order stating otherwise, I expect that there will be no problem with them releasing difficult child to me.</p><p></p><p>I can say I'm working toward that way of thinking, Cin Va, though. It's not that I think difficult child coming straight home is the best answer- but these nit-wits didn't/wouldn't order a short term placement or a reunification plan or anything other than this additional sanction. I really don'[t think this is going to help difficult child. It's not fair to him and is so similar to what he just spent 18 mos going thru, under the pretense that he'd come home when he finished it, that it would make a saint give up if it was ordered after what he's worked thru. I still would prefer a short term reunification plan or a place difficult child could go while we are working thru problems if it wasn't a program that was a disciplinary placement (not that he doesn't have to have rules and discipline anywhere), but this is the sort of program that a judge orders as a punishment- it's just not fair to difficult child right now. If he comes home and is going wild, it's different. But he deserves that chance. I honestly think it's unlawful otherwise.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 506218, member: 3699"] I'm kind of thinking that, too, CiVa- but if I call and give that message to staff in the facility while PO has sent them an email saying he's picking up difficult child to take hime to GH, then what happens when I get there? They need to have some authority telling them I am legally allowed to pick difficult child, I think. Never mind that they don't have anything stating otherwise. Mybe I'll just leave VM messages tomorrow that I'll be there Fri am to pick difficult child up and unless someone else shows up with a court order stating otherwise, I expect that there will be no problem with them releasing difficult child to me. I can say I'm working toward that way of thinking, Cin Va, though. It's not that I think difficult child coming straight home is the best answer- but these nit-wits didn't/wouldn't order a short term placement or a reunification plan or anything other than this additional sanction. I really don'[t think this is going to help difficult child. It's not fair to him and is so similar to what he just spent 18 mos going thru, under the pretense that he'd come home when he finished it, that it would make a saint give up if it was ordered after what he's worked thru. I still would prefer a short term reunification plan or a place difficult child could go while we are working thru problems if it wasn't a program that was a disciplinary placement (not that he doesn't have to have rules and discipline anywhere), but this is the sort of program that a judge orders as a punishment- it's just not fair to difficult child right now. If he comes home and is going wild, it's different. But he deserves that chance. I honestly think it's unlawful otherwise. [/QUOTE]
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