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<blockquote data-quote="dstc_99" data-source="post: 615158" data-attributes="member: 15473"><p>It sounds like everyone is too afraid to do anything. You won't do it unless husband is on board. husband won't do it because of rumors about Juvie. Bio Mom won't do it because it doesn't exist or it costs too much.</p><p></p><p>When is someone going to stop this ball and DO SOMETHING for this kid!</p><p></p><p>You have a child who has severe issues and instead of him getting help and you all being safe everyone is too worried about themselves. You have a very small window to get him this help. The sooner the better. </p><p></p><p>The police don't always show up at your door and send a kid straight to juvie. Most of the time they talk them down and then leave. At the most they might remove him from the home but unless he is arrested for something he isn't going to juvie. Heck they might even be willing to escort him to the hospital so that BIO Mom or you all don't get hurt.</p><p></p><p>Taking him to the hospital only works if you do it. You have to start documenting, and hospitalizations work for that.</p><p></p><p>Why can't you pick up the phone while bio mom is getting hit and send the cops over? You are not there witnessing it but you are aware of a crime being committed and not reporting it. Im not 100% sure but I think if you called 911 and said my SS is beating his mother and we can hear it over the phone can you please send someone out I think they would.</p><p></p><p>Also you don't have to put parental controls on a computer you can put keystroke tracking on it without his knowledge. It will allow you to see everything he types as well as where he has been. BUT he will never know it. <a href="http://www.gomcgruff.com" target="_blank">http://www.gomcgruff.com</a> is the program we used and difficult child never knew it was there until we confronted her about somethings she had done. The program was very inexpensive and easy to use.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dstc_99, post: 615158, member: 15473"] It sounds like everyone is too afraid to do anything. You won't do it unless husband is on board. husband won't do it because of rumors about Juvie. Bio Mom won't do it because it doesn't exist or it costs too much. When is someone going to stop this ball and DO SOMETHING for this kid! You have a child who has severe issues and instead of him getting help and you all being safe everyone is too worried about themselves. You have a very small window to get him this help. The sooner the better. The police don't always show up at your door and send a kid straight to juvie. Most of the time they talk them down and then leave. At the most they might remove him from the home but unless he is arrested for something he isn't going to juvie. Heck they might even be willing to escort him to the hospital so that BIO Mom or you all don't get hurt. Taking him to the hospital only works if you do it. You have to start documenting, and hospitalizations work for that. Why can't you pick up the phone while bio mom is getting hit and send the cops over? You are not there witnessing it but you are aware of a crime being committed and not reporting it. Im not 100% sure but I think if you called 911 and said my SS is beating his mother and we can hear it over the phone can you please send someone out I think they would. Also you don't have to put parental controls on a computer you can put keystroke tracking on it without his knowledge. It will allow you to see everything he types as well as where he has been. BUT he will never know it. [url]http://www.gomcgruff.com[/url] is the program we used and difficult child never knew it was there until we confronted her about somethings she had done. The program was very inexpensive and easy to use. [/QUOTE]
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