Thank you Busy. You said 'I do not expect you to believe this.' But I do believe you! We are not complete newcomers to this world we have all found ourselves in but we definitely still have our training wheels on in some aspects. Most likely, the parents of my son's 'friends' are just further down the road than we are. The days of delivering hot meals to hotel rooms are behind them. God willing we will be there ourselves one day.
We are set to attend our first in person Nar Anon meeting next week, on the recommendation of some acquaintances. They say it helped enormously in their situation and they were lucky enough to have a happy ending with their daughter. I am very hopeful that it will bring my husband some comfort.
Thank you so much for your response and I hope things are well with you. 
