With Kanga out of the house for over a month now, the change in Tigger is unreal. He is much calmer, sleeping through the night (10-11 hours), following directions, and making friends He is even keeping his room clean! His therapist told me today that he is in a "good place" mentally and is doing very well. His psychiatrist has weaned him off of Risperdal and lowered his Depakote. I am thrilled at how much better he is doing. It does make me realize how much damage she has done to my younger three. But as Maya said, "we did the best we could, when we knew more we did better."