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<blockquote data-quote="mattsmom27" data-source="post: 31625" data-attributes="member: 50"><p>Awww,thank you all :smile: It is hard to see my role in this, although I surely did hold him accountable HAHA. I guess because it was such a rough long road filled with far too much pain for everyone involved, it is hard to see the forest for the trees when looking back. </p><p></p><p>Indeed you are also correct that perhaps I can bring some hope to those struggling. This is a good thing! For those needing some hope, and for me who having been a member for about 8 years who doesn't want to give you all up :smile:</p><p></p><p>As for being done with them all, I'm fairly sure that the door is slammed and sealed shut. difficult child has spent all of 20 minutes with grandmonster since moving home. She doesn't call him, he doesnt' call her. difficult child is not allowed to have his fathers phone number. Nice huh? That makes me sick. He is well adjusted about having both grandmothers and my brother not in his life. He "seems" allright for the most part about his father not having changed one bit, but underneath the surface there is a anger/hurt that he has every right to have. It just makes me sad to know he hurts over anything. Yesterday he recieved a MSN message from his friend in the town where is father is. His father had seen this boy and the boy asked about difficult child, mentioned finding him online later to wish him happy birthday. difficult child's father then told this boy he had sent difficult child a bunch of money for his birthday. difficult child had a pretty bitter laugh saying he had to tell the kid he doesnt' have his dad's number and no, his father didnt' even acknowledge his birthday. He let it go pretty quick though. I think because he spent a wonderful evening surrounded by family that does value and love him. God what little family I have left is small, but we all love each other like crazy. I am so glad we had our gettogether! It was perfect timing for sure.</p><p></p><p>Anyhow, I will keep in mind that I do have something to offer still *YAY*</p><p></p><p>Melissa</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mattsmom27, post: 31625, member: 50"] Awww,thank you all [img]:smile:[/img] It is hard to see my role in this, although I surely did hold him accountable HAHA. I guess because it was such a rough long road filled with far too much pain for everyone involved, it is hard to see the forest for the trees when looking back. Indeed you are also correct that perhaps I can bring some hope to those struggling. This is a good thing! For those needing some hope, and for me who having been a member for about 8 years who doesn't want to give you all up [img]:smile:[/img] As for being done with them all, I'm fairly sure that the door is slammed and sealed shut. difficult child has spent all of 20 minutes with grandmonster since moving home. She doesn't call him, he doesnt' call her. difficult child is not allowed to have his fathers phone number. Nice huh? That makes me sick. He is well adjusted about having both grandmothers and my brother not in his life. He "seems" allright for the most part about his father not having changed one bit, but underneath the surface there is a anger/hurt that he has every right to have. It just makes me sad to know he hurts over anything. Yesterday he recieved a MSN message from his friend in the town where is father is. His father had seen this boy and the boy asked about difficult child, mentioned finding him online later to wish him happy birthday. difficult child's father then told this boy he had sent difficult child a bunch of money for his birthday. difficult child had a pretty bitter laugh saying he had to tell the kid he doesnt' have his dad's number and no, his father didnt' even acknowledge his birthday. He let it go pretty quick though. I think because he spent a wonderful evening surrounded by family that does value and love him. God what little family I have left is small, but we all love each other like crazy. I am so glad we had our gettogether! It was perfect timing for sure. Anyhow, I will keep in mind that I do have something to offer still *YAY* Melissa [/QUOTE]
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