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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 278725" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>Go to the counselling meeting that husband sets up but take those pictures with you.</p><p></p><p>Keep a diary. Be as impartial as you can be, make it clear in your diary that husband attributes the fire to "accident" but make sure you list ALL such "accidents" as well as each and every explanation from husband.</p><p></p><p>The problem here - husband is not as involved as he should be but yet claims to have a really thorough understanding.</p><p></p><p>Can't have it both ways. If husband wants to have people believe that his analysis is correct, he needs to be able to show that HE is the one in charge of medications, appointments etc and not having lumbered it onto you.</p><p></p><p>husband has other children. Notably, a little girl who is very vulnerable right now. husband appears to not take this into account.</p><p></p><p>Was there a time in the past when difficult child was in the equivalent position to your little girl, and husband was dismissive and saying, "t was an accident," or "Nothing happened anyway, so let's forget about it."?</p><p></p><p>THose who forget the past are condemned to relive it.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 278725, member: 1991"] Go to the counselling meeting that husband sets up but take those pictures with you. Keep a diary. Be as impartial as you can be, make it clear in your diary that husband attributes the fire to "accident" but make sure you list ALL such "accidents" as well as each and every explanation from husband. The problem here - husband is not as involved as he should be but yet claims to have a really thorough understanding. Can't have it both ways. If husband wants to have people believe that his analysis is correct, he needs to be able to show that HE is the one in charge of medications, appointments etc and not having lumbered it onto you. husband has other children. Notably, a little girl who is very vulnerable right now. husband appears to not take this into account. Was there a time in the past when difficult child was in the equivalent position to your little girl, and husband was dismissive and saying, "t was an accident," or "Nothing happened anyway, so let's forget about it."? THose who forget the past are condemned to relive it. Marg [/QUOTE]
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