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<blockquote data-quote="Signorina" data-source="post: 571313"><p>The girlfriend dumped him over the summer. Stagnating is the perfect description. I really don't want him out but he can't just be here pretending life is some long HS summer vacation. This is not going to end well and I am dreading the conversation that will most likely become a confrontation. Avoidance is not exactly setting a good example either. </p><p></p><p>And I have so many other things going on that need my attention. It's enough already. I need to get back to my life & my job both of which are threatening to start spinning wildly. As it is- I am waiting to hear about a long promised raise which never came thru and I gave them a 12/31 deadline! And husband started a great new job and he can't have difficult child taking up brain space; h NEEDS this job & needs to soar with it; it's a new position in a great company but I fear the newest position could be the first job cut- Know what I mean?? I know husband dropped the ball with his own company - which we are closing officially on 12/31 - partially because of the constant preoccupation w difficult child. I'm not going thru that again. And what if one of the pcs need us? It's someone else's turn for crying out loud!</p><p></p><p>He's almost 21, I suspect he is biding his time playing student until his hometown friends go back to school & then what? I was trying to hold on because the ski instructor job was a dream job for him & I wanted him to have the chance to feel some success. And he blew it. It doesn't bode well.</p><p></p><p>Him storming out angrily is just going to be another month of crying and then long months of worrying if he's breathing and jumping if the phone buzzes too late at night. It's like Groundhog Day and I need to get a grip. </p><p></p><p>Thanks for listening- I know it's venting and anxiety and peri menopausal PMS- but life doesn't feel right and I know in my heart that its not.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Signorina, post: 571313"] The girlfriend dumped him over the summer. Stagnating is the perfect description. I really don't want him out but he can't just be here pretending life is some long HS summer vacation. This is not going to end well and I am dreading the conversation that will most likely become a confrontation. Avoidance is not exactly setting a good example either. And I have so many other things going on that need my attention. It's enough already. I need to get back to my life & my job both of which are threatening to start spinning wildly. As it is- I am waiting to hear about a long promised raise which never came thru and I gave them a 12/31 deadline! And husband started a great new job and he can't have difficult child taking up brain space; h NEEDS this job & needs to soar with it; it's a new position in a great company but I fear the newest position could be the first job cut- Know what I mean?? I know husband dropped the ball with his own company - which we are closing officially on 12/31 - partially because of the constant preoccupation w difficult child. I'm not going thru that again. And what if one of the pcs need us? It's someone else's turn for crying out loud! He's almost 21, I suspect he is biding his time playing student until his hometown friends go back to school & then what? I was trying to hold on because the ski instructor job was a dream job for him & I wanted him to have the chance to feel some success. And he blew it. It doesn't bode well. Him storming out angrily is just going to be another month of crying and then long months of worrying if he's breathing and jumping if the phone buzzes too late at night. It's like Groundhog Day and I need to get a grip. Thanks for listening- I know it's venting and anxiety and peri menopausal PMS- but life doesn't feel right and I know in my heart that its not. [/QUOTE]
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