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<blockquote data-quote="Signorina" data-source="post: 571411"><p>Well TL - it's not meant to be a confrontation but I think that's where it will end up. been there done that. He has repeatedly told his dad and me that he will be enrolled at school in January. He has not provided any details. Just that he is "working on it..." We don't know where or how or when. </p><p></p><p>We have no clue as to his plans. Is he returning to his apartment in his college town? If so, when? How? Will he being going to school in the college town? Working there? Not really my problem but I would like to know if he is going back there to live and if he is planning on us to take him. Or is he planning to stay here indefinitely? We've offered our limited help with tuition and repeatedly asked him to tell us his plans and in return he says "he is working on it". I am pretty sure he is stringing us along and lying to us. And that's making me uncomfortable. I can't keep playing along...classes start in 2.5 weeks, so it's getting less feasible that he plans to re-enroll.</p><p></p><p>He can't stay here unless he is working and/or going to school. I don't have set criteria but he can't live here indefinitely and sleep all day, go out all night without at least a pt job and/or taking some classes. As much as I don't want him to go, we have to have some standards. He isn't a toddler and this isn't a flophouse. I am really OK with any scenario, but I would like to know what the heck is going on. I mean it's ridiculous - he hedges everything and it's been going on since before Thanksgiving...and the time keeps passing and we are still in the dark.</p><p></p><p>And I don't think I am over reaching by asking him what the plan is - Know what I mean??</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Signorina, post: 571411"] Well TL - it's not meant to be a confrontation but I think that's where it will end up. been there done that. He has repeatedly told his dad and me that he will be enrolled at school in January. He has not provided any details. Just that he is "working on it..." We don't know where or how or when. We have no clue as to his plans. Is he returning to his apartment in his college town? If so, when? How? Will he being going to school in the college town? Working there? Not really my problem but I would like to know if he is going back there to live and if he is planning on us to take him. Or is he planning to stay here indefinitely? We've offered our limited help with tuition and repeatedly asked him to tell us his plans and in return he says "he is working on it". I am pretty sure he is stringing us along and lying to us. And that's making me uncomfortable. I can't keep playing along...classes start in 2.5 weeks, so it's getting less feasible that he plans to re-enroll. He can't stay here unless he is working and/or going to school. I don't have set criteria but he can't live here indefinitely and sleep all day, go out all night without at least a pt job and/or taking some classes. As much as I don't want him to go, we have to have some standards. He isn't a toddler and this isn't a flophouse. I am really OK with any scenario, but I would like to know what the heck is going on. I mean it's ridiculous - he hedges everything and it's been going on since before Thanksgiving...and the time keeps passing and we are still in the dark. And I don't think I am over reaching by asking him what the plan is - Know what I mean?? [/QUOTE]
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