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update- other shoes going to fall soon
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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 571419"><p>Definitely not a reach to ask what the plan is, although I think you already know the answer, he doesn't have one yet! So instead of asking him, and then getting upset by his non answer, why don't you figure out your plans, tell him what they are and let him go from there.</p><p></p><p>something like "I am free to drive you back to school on these days to drive you back to school if you need a ride, and since you haven't said otherwise we are assuming you are going back by date x and I have some project planned and will need your room to store stuff"</p><p></p><p>You get the idea. He obviously doesn't know what he is going to do and asking him just makes him defensive. Telling him your plans kind of puts it on him but less confrontationially I think...of course it may end up in a confrontation anyway.</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 571419"] Definitely not a reach to ask what the plan is, although I think you already know the answer, he doesn't have one yet! So instead of asking him, and then getting upset by his non answer, why don't you figure out your plans, tell him what they are and let him go from there. something like "I am free to drive you back to school on these days to drive you back to school if you need a ride, and since you haven't said otherwise we are assuming you are going back by date x and I have some project planned and will need your room to store stuff" You get the idea. He obviously doesn't know what he is going to do and asking him just makes him defensive. Telling him your plans kind of puts it on him but less confrontationially I think...of course it may end up in a confrontation anyway. TL [/QUOTE]
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