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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 164746" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>((((((((HUGS))))))))</p><p> </p><p>I know how upsetting and frustrating it is to make all those calls and have NO ONE offer any real help.</p><p> </p><p>I think the age 10 thing is when the "help" is more available, because the kids under 10 "don't have these problems". ARRRGGGHHH!!!</p><p> </p><p>Call the churches. Ask what programs they know of, what other church might have or know of a program/doctor that might help. Ask them if they ahve any members who are psychiatrists etc who might be able to help. This is how I found a boy's home we wanted to send my son to. In our case, my parents decided tehy wanted to have him with them instead.</p><p> </p><p>I would also start calling and emailing state and federal level representatives and senators. They may be able to push some help your way. You will have to be very very persistent.</p><p> </p><p>Thsi just stinks for your entire family. Please remember that a younger child who is sexually aggressive CAN abuse an older child, esp one with problems. So be sure you are open with your older child, very open.</p><p> </p><p>This is hard to say. I odn't want you to think I am telling you to just ditch the child. However, you have to remember you are the protector for the other children, and you cannot let one child ruin your other children, nomatter how much you love him. And some children are so damaged they cannot live in a home setting, or with other children. I am so sorry. I don't know if you are at this point or not, but please keep it in mind.</p><p> </p><p>Hugs, and support for whatever you need to do.</p><p> </p><p> </p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 164746, member: 1233"] ((((((((HUGS)))))))) I know how upsetting and frustrating it is to make all those calls and have NO ONE offer any real help. I think the age 10 thing is when the "help" is more available, because the kids under 10 "don't have these problems". ARRRGGGHHH!!! Call the churches. Ask what programs they know of, what other church might have or know of a program/doctor that might help. Ask them if they ahve any members who are psychiatrists etc who might be able to help. This is how I found a boy's home we wanted to send my son to. In our case, my parents decided tehy wanted to have him with them instead. I would also start calling and emailing state and federal level representatives and senators. They may be able to push some help your way. You will have to be very very persistent. Thsi just stinks for your entire family. Please remember that a younger child who is sexually aggressive CAN abuse an older child, esp one with problems. So be sure you are open with your older child, very open. This is hard to say. I odn't want you to think I am telling you to just ditch the child. However, you have to remember you are the protector for the other children, and you cannot let one child ruin your other children, nomatter how much you love him. And some children are so damaged they cannot live in a home setting, or with other children. I am so sorry. I don't know if you are at this point or not, but please keep it in mind. Hugs, and support for whatever you need to do. Susie [/QUOTE]
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