Ok, I have spent the last 2 days straight on the phone. I dont even know what day it is anymore, I swear! Lets start back at the bginning. So I started with childrens justice center. They said they could help us, but since the case was never prosecuted against the kid that touched the middle one, all they can offer to me is parenting classes. I called ISAT, intermountain specialized abuse treatment center, and they can get him in to see someone monday, but we have to pay for 100% of the visits, they dont accept either of our insurances or medicaid. Next I called DSPD, and they said mental health issues dont count as a disability, and refered me back to wasatch mental health. I called DWS to see if I could qualify him for childcare funding, to see if we could hire him a private babysitter, and they go off our income, even tho they shouldnt. We dont qualify. So no help there. He was never appointed a guardian ad llitem, so their office just told me they couldnt help me at all. Respite said they could take him, for up to 72 hours, but they had no refferals to babysitters or programs that specialize in children with sexual issues. Addiction and psychiatric services for the county bounced me back to wasatch mental, which isnt helping a lot anyway. I called every boys home, etc, asking if they knew of anyone that could help me, a shrink, an attorney, a hospital, anything, and I get nothing... big fat nothing. I found 6 places in the US that will take boys his age, and the closest one is 380 miles away. I find it hard to think that sending him away to inpatient care would be beneficial, since the kid already has Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), and feels that his mom doesnt want him and left him with us. We have a dr appointment with the pediatrician monday, as well as the psychiatrist. Any more ideas?