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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 139801" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>To answer one question...he was never anywhere near this bad before the stroke. I have talked until I am blue in the face about how he needs to see a psychiatrist about this...he has even gone with me a few times to my therapist who has said the same thing. This is the first time he has put his hands on me in at least 20 years. The only other time was when I threw a jelly glass at him and hit him in the head. All he did then was to make me think he was going to hit me and hit the wall right above my head. </p><p></p><p>We have yelled at each other during arguments. We both fight pretty dirty sometimes. My borderline traits come roaring out when I get mad. </p><p></p><p>I know we are under an enormous amount of stress right now but I also think he has been letting this stuff brew inside him ever since I got my disability. It represents me having a little bit of money and he is afraid I will leave. I think that is one reason he wanted me to buy a car with payments...so I couldnt financially leave. </p><p></p><p>Who knows. He came over to take the baby home and barely said two words to me. He had to use my car because it had the car seat in it but when he returned it, he didnt even tell me he was back. Just threw my keys in the house and left again. He could see I was limping around and really not well. Guess that just didnt matter to him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 139801, member: 1514"] To answer one question...he was never anywhere near this bad before the stroke. I have talked until I am blue in the face about how he needs to see a psychiatrist about this...he has even gone with me a few times to my therapist who has said the same thing. This is the first time he has put his hands on me in at least 20 years. The only other time was when I threw a jelly glass at him and hit him in the head. All he did then was to make me think he was going to hit me and hit the wall right above my head. We have yelled at each other during arguments. We both fight pretty dirty sometimes. My borderline traits come roaring out when I get mad. I know we are under an enormous amount of stress right now but I also think he has been letting this stuff brew inside him ever since I got my disability. It represents me having a little bit of money and he is afraid I will leave. I think that is one reason he wanted me to buy a car with payments...so I couldnt financially leave. Who knows. He came over to take the baby home and barely said two words to me. He had to use my car because it had the car seat in it but when he returned it, he didnt even tell me he was back. Just threw my keys in the house and left again. He could see I was limping around and really not well. Guess that just didnt matter to him. [/QUOTE]
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