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<blockquote data-quote="DenitaS" data-source="post: 378984" data-attributes="member: 5918"><p>I am finally ANGRY!! Like beyond description ANGRY!! </p><p>I NEVER let myself "feel" when all of this is going on. I talked to the mother of the friend that the therapist said I should allow her to go and stay with upon release (Insurance is up after 30 days and no Residential Treatment Center (RTC) available).. After she did the aw this poor child blah blah blah and WHY would you press charges and Blah Blah Blah! I remained composed and ONLY discussed facts! THEN the case manager calls and says that she has about 2 weeks of insurance left and she MAY be able to go to another place for those 2 weeks BUT, then my benefits are out and if something happens we are left with nothing! difficult child 2 ALWAYS accuses husband of abuse. We are considering a Refusal to accept Parental Responsibility route when this fails. That way, the state can put her in an Residential Treatment Center (RTC)! BUT, we have to worry about the 2 year old in our care (difficult child 1's). So, I calmly ask the lady if she saw any "proof" or reason to "believe" that there is abuse in our home (again, trying to protect ourselves from the fallout when this fails) she says that she believes there "may" be reason to believe that their is? I said really?? She said that difficult child 2 is not malice in anyway (REALLY?? NEWS TO ME??) and she can't imagine her saying something completely to hurt someone with NO reason??? WTH?? FOR REAL??? ARE YOU SERIOUS??? Would you like to see the message where she told her friend to pick her up from the park because husband busted her lip? (Didn't happen) OR would you like the message between her and I were she explains HOW she will frame us for abuse!! OH MY GOSH!! (I did NOT say these things to her, just kept my composure and got off the phone)</p><p> </p><p>I AM SO SICK Of living my life having to defend and look at all the fallout "options" for what she says!!!! THIS is ridiculous! Why in the WORLD would you empower a child like this! I Am just ANGRY!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DenitaS, post: 378984, member: 5918"] I am finally ANGRY!! Like beyond description ANGRY!! I NEVER let myself "feel" when all of this is going on. I talked to the mother of the friend that the therapist said I should allow her to go and stay with upon release (Insurance is up after 30 days and no Residential Treatment Center (RTC) available).. After she did the aw this poor child blah blah blah and WHY would you press charges and Blah Blah Blah! I remained composed and ONLY discussed facts! THEN the case manager calls and says that she has about 2 weeks of insurance left and she MAY be able to go to another place for those 2 weeks BUT, then my benefits are out and if something happens we are left with nothing! difficult child 2 ALWAYS accuses husband of abuse. We are considering a Refusal to accept Parental Responsibility route when this fails. That way, the state can put her in an Residential Treatment Center (RTC)! BUT, we have to worry about the 2 year old in our care (difficult child 1's). So, I calmly ask the lady if she saw any "proof" or reason to "believe" that there is abuse in our home (again, trying to protect ourselves from the fallout when this fails) she says that she believes there "may" be reason to believe that their is? I said really?? She said that difficult child 2 is not malice in anyway (REALLY?? NEWS TO ME??) and she can't imagine her saying something completely to hurt someone with NO reason??? WTH?? FOR REAL??? ARE YOU SERIOUS??? Would you like to see the message where she told her friend to pick her up from the park because husband busted her lip? (Didn't happen) OR would you like the message between her and I were she explains HOW she will frame us for abuse!! OH MY GOSH!! (I did NOT say these things to her, just kept my composure and got off the phone) I AM SO SICK Of living my life having to defend and look at all the fallout "options" for what she says!!!! THIS is ridiculous! Why in the WORLD would you empower a child like this! I Am just ANGRY!! [/QUOTE]
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