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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 422359" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>We saw this one coming. I'm glad you left - your last thread seemed to indicate you were really trying to make it work with him and I didn't think that would be possible, he is too controlling in so many ways, in worrying ways.</p><p></p><p>Even if you find your own place, contact a homeless shelter anyway. Find somewhere tat specialises in domestic abuse in your state, and talk to them at length. They will also be equipped to point you in the right direction morally and legally.</p><p></p><p>As for the car - in most households, a situation where there is only one functioning vehicle is not abused in order to keep the other party at home and isolated. His car was in the shop for 9 weeks!!??!? Sounds to me like he was glad of the excuse to keep you where he wanted you, and is wanting to continue to do so.</p><p></p><p>I'm glad you have finally left. While I am not generally happy about people leaving a relationship as a way to cope with problems, from what you have said about this situation I can only applaud your final move. Enthusiastically.</p><p></p><p>Hugs, hon. Enjoy the [relative] tranquility.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 422359, member: 1991"] We saw this one coming. I'm glad you left - your last thread seemed to indicate you were really trying to make it work with him and I didn't think that would be possible, he is too controlling in so many ways, in worrying ways. Even if you find your own place, contact a homeless shelter anyway. Find somewhere tat specialises in domestic abuse in your state, and talk to them at length. They will also be equipped to point you in the right direction morally and legally. As for the car - in most households, a situation where there is only one functioning vehicle is not abused in order to keep the other party at home and isolated. His car was in the shop for 9 weeks!!??!? Sounds to me like he was glad of the excuse to keep you where he wanted you, and is wanting to continue to do so. I'm glad you have finally left. While I am not generally happy about people leaving a relationship as a way to cope with problems, from what you have said about this situation I can only applaud your final move. Enthusiastically. Hugs, hon. Enjoy the [relative] tranquility. Marg [/QUOTE]
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