Wow. Thanks for the update. Love the laundry detergent idea and that you got that idea here! I am sending you good wishes and sometimes not seeing a husband is helpful to the marriage...lol. I'm serious. My marriage to my ex never would have gone on for seventeen years except that he was so scared of being broke (although we weren't) that he worked a part time job, even on Sundays, and I worked when he didn't to avoid daycare costs and putting kids into daycare at all.
Thanks for checking in and hoping to see you more often!