Small update... Hubs got retained in the army. I honestly don't know how but he did. He is off medications right now and most of the time is okay. I wish he would find medications because him being off medications is scary to me. Tk is doing okay at dad's house. She will be home next week for thanksgiving. She is having problems with students at school, grades wise she is okay and she's doing good at home mostly because they don't have a lot of space and an adult eyes are on her at all times. I am really getting along very well with my ex husbands girlfriend/wife. Boyo is okay Mr Lewis is walking! As of today. He also says mama daddy and bubba, and something it sounds like Gavin. I recently got a job waiting tables and pretty much as soon as that happened, my business, the laundry soap, fabric softener business got very busy. Thanks again to Hound dog for the recipe. I also added naturally home crafted lotions and bath bombs recently and they are doing well. I'm having a hard time keeping up with house, home business and job. Hubs is working night shift at range detail. I don't know if that made things better or worse for us. We rarely see each other, he sleeps a lot, but he's starting to make an effort to see me and help more with house and kids since I am rarely home and we virtually never see each other. Even with all of that we are barely making it, but Christmas is bought and paid for, for the kids atleast and the bills are caught up for now. Atleast the major ones. So staying in Colorado for a while. If you want to see the website, search Julie's Laundry Products on facebook. I don't imagine many of you will but it came Directly from hanging out here and talking to you ladies.