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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 734776" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p><em>Thank you all for your support, love and comments. Since my mother died I truly feel different, now I am the older generation. Even though I believe in the afterlife, I will miss so much about my mother. My mom would say things that would make me laugh hard, she just had that kind of personality. Mom had the most beautiful silver hair that I have ever seen, one of the reasons I quit putting color in mine.</em></p><p><em>My husband exploding on our daughter was well deserved. I usually do all the battles with her, he tore into her with frustration that has been building for years. We ran into our daughter and 1/2 a** boyfriend at the community swimming pool, both were able to go swimming because I paid the dues for my daughter and one guest for the year, they were not happy to see us there and 1/2 A** boyfriend says the same thing all the time, I've been busy, busy, busy. I think that should talk for itself, my husband is a very busy man and I have never heard him say 'busy, busy busy' anyway being around those two nitwits was more than my husband could take so when we got home, he called our daughter and exploded on her. He has the gift to bring it all to the top and not forget anything and say everything that needed to be said, even though it was my mother that died, my husband is very sad and I guess her death has moved things along at a faster pace. Mom's death just reminds us that time is short, unpredictable and fragile we don't want the BS and we are not going to take it anymore either. Life is going by at record speed I do not want to check up on a 36 year old to make sure she is taking care of her bills or even keeping her house clean. We want her to close the money pit spa she owns, I should say we own since we are paying so much for it. Stupid decisions are so costly and soon, real soon I will be out from her stupid decisions. The car and student loans get paid off in Oct and the house in just a few more years. Each time we confront her she says 'well,I am not on drugs or alcohol' as if that is her A card to keep using us. I said I am not on drugs or alcohol either, neither is your dad so because we are drug and alcohol free are YOU going to pay our bills.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>Idiot mentality is what my daughter has and my mothers death is given me some kind of super power to not feel so much guilt or hurt over my daughters behavior almost like she is a dirty piece of grime on my hands and I finally have the strength to wash it off and not feel bad that it is sitting at the bottom of the sink and about to go down the drain. For years guilt, sadness, all kinds of other stuff was sitting at my heart and causing me to be a victim to this abuse. My mothers death is setting new feelings in my heart, feelings about life being really short about being happy.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>I know that I deserve to be happy everyday. Psalm 118:24 This is the day the Lord hath made I will rejoice and be glad in it.</em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 734776, member: 22416"] [I]Thank you all for your support, love and comments. Since my mother died I truly feel different, now I am the older generation. Even though I believe in the afterlife, I will miss so much about my mother. My mom would say things that would make me laugh hard, she just had that kind of personality. Mom had the most beautiful silver hair that I have ever seen, one of the reasons I quit putting color in mine. My husband exploding on our daughter was well deserved. I usually do all the battles with her, he tore into her with frustration that has been building for years. We ran into our daughter and 1/2 a** boyfriend at the community swimming pool, both were able to go swimming because I paid the dues for my daughter and one guest for the year, they were not happy to see us there and 1/2 A** boyfriend says the same thing all the time, I've been busy, busy, busy. I think that should talk for itself, my husband is a very busy man and I have never heard him say 'busy, busy busy' anyway being around those two nitwits was more than my husband could take so when we got home, he called our daughter and exploded on her. He has the gift to bring it all to the top and not forget anything and say everything that needed to be said, even though it was my mother that died, my husband is very sad and I guess her death has moved things along at a faster pace. Mom's death just reminds us that time is short, unpredictable and fragile we don't want the BS and we are not going to take it anymore either. Life is going by at record speed I do not want to check up on a 36 year old to make sure she is taking care of her bills or even keeping her house clean. We want her to close the money pit spa she owns, I should say we own since we are paying so much for it. Stupid decisions are so costly and soon, real soon I will be out from her stupid decisions. The car and student loans get paid off in Oct and the house in just a few more years. Each time we confront her she says 'well,I am not on drugs or alcohol' as if that is her A card to keep using us. I said I am not on drugs or alcohol either, neither is your dad so because we are drug and alcohol free are YOU going to pay our bills. Idiot mentality is what my daughter has and my mothers death is given me some kind of super power to not feel so much guilt or hurt over my daughters behavior almost like she is a dirty piece of grime on my hands and I finally have the strength to wash it off and not feel bad that it is sitting at the bottom of the sink and about to go down the drain. For years guilt, sadness, all kinds of other stuff was sitting at my heart and causing me to be a victim to this abuse. My mothers death is setting new feelings in my heart, feelings about life being really short about being happy. I know that I deserve to be happy everyday. Psalm 118:24 This is the day the Lord hath made I will rejoice and be glad in it.[/I] [/QUOTE]
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