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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 239711" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>andy thanks and yes i'm better. i'm just run down now is all. fever's are gone, still giong to gyn for other junk im still figuring out. it's so hard to explain to you in writing what it's like with difficult child. her high refusal level, how it is what she does no matter how calm i stay. she is adamant about not going, school last year tried weekly rewards, i try daily rewards. she doesn't care. most days now she will fight long and hard to not go. she wont' get out of bed, than once i can awaken her I strongly belive this is the BiPolar (BP) at play here, the kids in rem when i'm waking her up. their cycle hits later in the night early a.m. hours for them.</p><p> </p><p>than it's fighting to get dressed, usually a few meltdowns there due to the weight increase and her negative self image. than it's fighting her to get her out of room and down to eat breakfast, than comes prompting a million times to get her to brush her teeth, than comes the diarhea most mornings due to her anxiety of not wanting to go so bathroom extended stay. than the prompting and convincingto get hr out the door. once we get in truck for most part i'm safe. </p><p> </p><p>my older daughter has been around only this week due to midterms and she said mom i have no idea how anyone could handle this every single day without losing their mind this is horrible. difficult child started verbally attacking easy child today just like she used to bck in the day with your a freak, your so ugly you make me sick etc.</p><p> </p><p>to see is to believe lol. thank goodness she isnt' hitting me i know other's go thru worse. yet i have been trained now officially on how to handle that as well at work <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p> </p><p>marg i agree school change is def. it's giong to take a whole other year to get her out once middle school nears closer.</p><p> </p><p>i feel like i've down alot yet i dont' think i've done enough at times. i am doubling down on new therapist starting next week two sessions per week. now ihave to hire a tutor because grades are slipping especially in math, i'm going to find a sensory therapist because her sensory issues also set her off alot as of late. than nutritionist i'm awaiting appointment. date for, holistic guy i'm tryinig to get on board right now so i can pull this seroquel. i'm going to have to go back to posting schedule in kitchen and in room for everyday. house rules on wall again. i feel like we have slid backward again.</p><p> </p><p>yet i love when the stupid teacher says ah shes' fine. i thought i did enough yet i guess not. i see kids get hospitalized everyday for what i go thru with difficult child everyday. it scares me bigtime. oh, you dont' want to go to school hospitalization, oh verbally abusive hospital, everything's hospital. i refuse. i did refuse a year ago and i wont' now. there are still alot of parents here i know who go thru worse than this. i know there are sitautions where hospital is best, we aren't there yet. i also don't think alot of the kids i work with deserve it for thinigs such as that yet tha'Tourette's Syndrome a whole other frustration iv'e been feeling at work. sheesh i really should change my name on this board. lol</p><p> </p><p>im going to go get me herbs. if i dont' it's going to be medications soon <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> i have to take them for more energy so i cankeep this up and also to help keep me level with my own anxiety that peeks after the storm subsides i'm left mindless literally.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 239711, member: 4514"] andy thanks and yes i'm better. i'm just run down now is all. fever's are gone, still giong to gyn for other junk im still figuring out. it's so hard to explain to you in writing what it's like with difficult child. her high refusal level, how it is what she does no matter how calm i stay. she is adamant about not going, school last year tried weekly rewards, i try daily rewards. she doesn't care. most days now she will fight long and hard to not go. she wont' get out of bed, than once i can awaken her I strongly belive this is the BiPolar (BP) at play here, the kids in rem when i'm waking her up. their cycle hits later in the night early a.m. hours for them. than it's fighting to get dressed, usually a few meltdowns there due to the weight increase and her negative self image. than it's fighting her to get her out of room and down to eat breakfast, than comes prompting a million times to get her to brush her teeth, than comes the diarhea most mornings due to her anxiety of not wanting to go so bathroom extended stay. than the prompting and convincingto get hr out the door. once we get in truck for most part i'm safe. my older daughter has been around only this week due to midterms and she said mom i have no idea how anyone could handle this every single day without losing their mind this is horrible. difficult child started verbally attacking easy child today just like she used to bck in the day with your a freak, your so ugly you make me sick etc. to see is to believe lol. thank goodness she isnt' hitting me i know other's go thru worse. yet i have been trained now officially on how to handle that as well at work :) marg i agree school change is def. it's giong to take a whole other year to get her out once middle school nears closer. i feel like i've down alot yet i dont' think i've done enough at times. i am doubling down on new therapist starting next week two sessions per week. now ihave to hire a tutor because grades are slipping especially in math, i'm going to find a sensory therapist because her sensory issues also set her off alot as of late. than nutritionist i'm awaiting appointment. date for, holistic guy i'm tryinig to get on board right now so i can pull this seroquel. i'm going to have to go back to posting schedule in kitchen and in room for everyday. house rules on wall again. i feel like we have slid backward again. yet i love when the stupid teacher says ah shes' fine. i thought i did enough yet i guess not. i see kids get hospitalized everyday for what i go thru with difficult child everyday. it scares me bigtime. oh, you dont' want to go to school hospitalization, oh verbally abusive hospital, everything's hospital. i refuse. i did refuse a year ago and i wont' now. there are still alot of parents here i know who go thru worse than this. i know there are sitautions where hospital is best, we aren't there yet. i also don't think alot of the kids i work with deserve it for thinigs such as that yet tha'Tourette's Syndrome a whole other frustration iv'e been feeling at work. sheesh i really should change my name on this board. lol im going to go get me herbs. if i dont' it's going to be medications soon :) i have to take them for more energy so i cankeep this up and also to help keep me level with my own anxiety that peeks after the storm subsides i'm left mindless literally. [/QUOTE]
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