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<blockquote data-quote="sjexpress" data-source="post: 642260" data-attributes="member: 15790"><p>thank you again for all the advice and information on the book. I will definitely look it up. I am sure I can handle a new position outside of my former career. It of course is just a matter of finding someone that will hire me to give me a chance to prove myself. Right now we will just get thru the holidays and then tell the boys with a new year comes change sometimes and just explain to them that I had the opportunity to stay home for many years but now due to finances and cost of living, I will need to go back to work. ( i won't tell them their father is the biggest moron on the face of the earth and he screwed this family royaly! ) </p><p> I know that almost all of their friends have both parents that work so it certainly is not out of the ordinary. I will tell them that we may have to use childcare ( for my 9 yr easy child) but will do our best to all work together to be able to get to our sports and other activities that they love as usual.</p><p> With this all just hitting me a few days ago, I am still trying to sort thru my feelings of anger towards my husband for letting our money be all used up and not telling me when our account was getting low so I could have gotten a job while we still had savings. I am still mad at my self for being such an idiot and never checking the bank balance myself but then again, why would I ever think he was not telling me the truth. And worse, my fear of how the changes in our daily lives will affect my kids. Especially difficult child, who is doing so well the past year. I find myself crying quite often thruout the day. I guess I am sort of in mourning for how comfortable things were...</p><p> I wish you all a happy and healthy holiday time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="sjexpress, post: 642260, member: 15790"] thank you again for all the advice and information on the book. I will definitely look it up. I am sure I can handle a new position outside of my former career. It of course is just a matter of finding someone that will hire me to give me a chance to prove myself. Right now we will just get thru the holidays and then tell the boys with a new year comes change sometimes and just explain to them that I had the opportunity to stay home for many years but now due to finances and cost of living, I will need to go back to work. ( i won't tell them their father is the biggest moron on the face of the earth and he screwed this family royaly! ) I know that almost all of their friends have both parents that work so it certainly is not out of the ordinary. I will tell them that we may have to use childcare ( for my 9 yr easy child) but will do our best to all work together to be able to get to our sports and other activities that they love as usual. With this all just hitting me a few days ago, I am still trying to sort thru my feelings of anger towards my husband for letting our money be all used up and not telling me when our account was getting low so I could have gotten a job while we still had savings. I am still mad at my self for being such an idiot and never checking the bank balance myself but then again, why would I ever think he was not telling me the truth. And worse, my fear of how the changes in our daily lives will affect my kids. Especially difficult child, who is doing so well the past year. I find myself crying quite often thruout the day. I guess I am sort of in mourning for how comfortable things were... I wish you all a happy and healthy holiday time. [/QUOTE]
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