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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 123013" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>thanks guys i appreciate it.</p><p></p><p>i'm still floored by what he said, i did make the calls though there are no options right now and financially having a job hurts me alot LOL....too funny, huh...???</p><p></p><p></p><p>anyway yes i had a long talk with him and told him that i think he is a disgusting human being with absolutely no thought or care to his behaviors and their affect on children i also told him that although i appreciate him putting a roof over the girls and my head when i lost everything i almost wish i hadn't because this type of careless abusive behavior towards my daughter is inexcusable under any circumstance that if she's going to be either called that or hear that let it be on the street certainly not in my home (home for the moment).</p><p></p><p>he has apologized repeatedly via text today, i do not care to hear it. i will be sleeping this evening when he returns home. </p><p></p><p>i just have to continue to stay focused and run interference best i can and maybe on mondays and wednesday when he has his kids i could pick little outtings to do with mine on occassion ice cream, etc. problem is my kids love love being with his kids. kids are great they aren't the problem he is......LOL</p><p></p><p>he grew up being yelled at, called names etc. i thought maybe he could overcome that and not make the same mistakes in rearing his kids, i guess not.</p><p></p><p>it is what it is right now. he wants to be forgiven i will never be able to and told him so. he wants to come home and me to welcome him open arms like it's all good. i'm done pretending.</p><p></p><p>thanks for letting me ramble so.</p><p></p><p>i went out and met a friend for lunch today and laughed alot believe it or not once we discussed this briefly it was good felt a little like me again.</p><p></p><p>my daughter seems ok i checked in with her again just a bit ago after she got home from school.</p><p></p><p>jen</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 123013, member: 4514"] thanks guys i appreciate it. i'm still floored by what he said, i did make the calls though there are no options right now and financially having a job hurts me alot LOL....too funny, huh...??? anyway yes i had a long talk with him and told him that i think he is a disgusting human being with absolutely no thought or care to his behaviors and their affect on children i also told him that although i appreciate him putting a roof over the girls and my head when i lost everything i almost wish i hadn't because this type of careless abusive behavior towards my daughter is inexcusable under any circumstance that if she's going to be either called that or hear that let it be on the street certainly not in my home (home for the moment). he has apologized repeatedly via text today, i do not care to hear it. i will be sleeping this evening when he returns home. i just have to continue to stay focused and run interference best i can and maybe on mondays and wednesday when he has his kids i could pick little outtings to do with mine on occassion ice cream, etc. problem is my kids love love being with his kids. kids are great they aren't the problem he is......LOL he grew up being yelled at, called names etc. i thought maybe he could overcome that and not make the same mistakes in rearing his kids, i guess not. it is what it is right now. he wants to be forgiven i will never be able to and told him so. he wants to come home and me to welcome him open arms like it's all good. i'm done pretending. thanks for letting me ramble so. i went out and met a friend for lunch today and laughed alot believe it or not once we discussed this briefly it was good felt a little like me again. my daughter seems ok i checked in with her again just a bit ago after she got home from school. jen [/QUOTE]
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