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<blockquote data-quote="crazymama30" data-source="post: 258991" data-attributes="member: 3184"><p>I think what I will do, is suggest that gfather hire an agency to come in a few times a week. He can afford this, and it would greatly help.Then they can clean, cook and whatever. </p><p> </p><p>Mom has some very codependent tendencies, she is working on it. She goes to alanon, but her weak spot is T. T lives with his mom, step dad, step bro and mom is pregnant again (step bro less than 1yr) due pretty soon now. They are not mean people, but they are different. Ignorant and proud of it. It is rubbing off on T. How could it not?</p><p> </p><p>I really do try to keep T and difficult child apart, but it is hard because when he stays the night, I go stay with gfather and mom stays with my family. T idolizes difficult child, and difficult child is nice to him for the most part, but difficult child does not like him. T pretty much an only child, his 1/2 brother is under 1yr old. You don't have to share much with a baby. T does not share well, grabs toys, and whines. </p><p> </p><p>I feel so much better after posting this, I had to get it off my chest before I popped. I think I need to go back to therapy (like I really need one more thing to do?) and have some reccomendations from difficult child's therapist. The last gal I saw was very nice, but she seemed more overwhelmed with my life than I did. Did not inspire much confidence.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="crazymama30, post: 258991, member: 3184"] I think what I will do, is suggest that gfather hire an agency to come in a few times a week. He can afford this, and it would greatly help.Then they can clean, cook and whatever. Mom has some very codependent tendencies, she is working on it. She goes to alanon, but her weak spot is T. T lives with his mom, step dad, step bro and mom is pregnant again (step bro less than 1yr) due pretty soon now. They are not mean people, but they are different. Ignorant and proud of it. It is rubbing off on T. How could it not? I really do try to keep T and difficult child apart, but it is hard because when he stays the night, I go stay with gfather and mom stays with my family. T idolizes difficult child, and difficult child is nice to him for the most part, but difficult child does not like him. T pretty much an only child, his 1/2 brother is under 1yr old. You don't have to share much with a baby. T does not share well, grabs toys, and whines. I feel so much better after posting this, I had to get it off my chest before I popped. I think I need to go back to therapy (like I really need one more thing to do?) and have some reccomendations from difficult child's therapist. The last gal I saw was very nice, but she seemed more overwhelmed with my life than I did. Did not inspire much confidence. [/QUOTE]
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