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<blockquote data-quote="busywend" data-source="post: 128998" data-attributes="member: 391"><p>Obviously, he knew the text would upset you or he would not have hesitated. It could be nothing, or it could be something. </p><p> </p><p>The point is to make him understand how it makes you feel. If it makes you uncomortable to get text messages, he can do a few things to help in this partnership:</p><p>1. he can turn off texting on his phone</p><p>2. he can share them with you so you understand what is going on in his life</p><p>3. he can leave if he is unwilling to help you feel better about the topic</p><p> </p><p>Do I think it is possible it is totally innocent. Yes, I do. I think people have innocent relationships that are not nearly as important to them - and therefore they should be willing to consider the others' feelings about that innocent, unimportant relationship. </p><p> </p><p>The Golden Rule still applies as adults: Do unto others as you would have done unto you. </p><p> </p><p>What if you started getting text messages? How would he feel?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="busywend, post: 128998, member: 391"] Obviously, he knew the text would upset you or he would not have hesitated. It could be nothing, or it could be something. The point is to make him understand how it makes you feel. If it makes you uncomortable to get text messages, he can do a few things to help in this partnership: 1. he can turn off texting on his phone 2. he can share them with you so you understand what is going on in his life 3. he can leave if he is unwilling to help you feel better about the topic Do I think it is possible it is totally innocent. Yes, I do. I think people have innocent relationships that are not nearly as important to them - and therefore they should be willing to consider the others' feelings about that innocent, unimportant relationship. The Golden Rule still applies as adults: Do unto others as you would have done unto you. What if you started getting text messages? How would he feel? [/QUOTE]
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