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<blockquote data-quote="JayPee" data-source="post: 753868" data-attributes="member: 23405"><p>Wise</p><p></p><p>I’m so happy for you that you got that job at the PO and that you’ve made decisions about your transportation and the vehicle for your daughter.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry for how things are still going with the kids. I so understand how you feel numb from their abrasive, rude, uncaring attitudes. I still have had no communication with older son since August. I feel strange sometimes because even the sadness I should feel is going away. I’m not feeling anything and I’m not sure if that’s right or good or just the healing part of detachment with love. When you’ve done all you can and no one cares, it eventually sends you a message. For me that message was and is to be the change in the situation. This sounds like another step you are taking for yourself with this job. It will take the focus off your adult children and because you will be so busy you won’t have to work so hard at not focusing on their bad attitudes and ungratefulness.</p><p></p><p>Something tells me you will see changes in them as you begin to shift the focus. You will surround yourself with people who have “life” in them and function and thrive.</p><p></p><p>I’m happy you are being “the change” in the situation.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JayPee, post: 753868, member: 23405"] Wise I’m so happy for you that you got that job at the PO and that you’ve made decisions about your transportation and the vehicle for your daughter. I am sorry for how things are still going with the kids. I so understand how you feel numb from their abrasive, rude, uncaring attitudes. I still have had no communication with older son since August. I feel strange sometimes because even the sadness I should feel is going away. I’m not feeling anything and I’m not sure if that’s right or good or just the healing part of detachment with love. When you’ve done all you can and no one cares, it eventually sends you a message. For me that message was and is to be the change in the situation. This sounds like another step you are taking for yourself with this job. It will take the focus off your adult children and because you will be so busy you won’t have to work so hard at not focusing on their bad attitudes and ungratefulness. Something tells me you will see changes in them as you begin to shift the focus. You will surround yourself with people who have “life” in them and function and thrive. I’m happy you are being “the change” in the situation. [/QUOTE]
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