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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 258163" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I am really sorry for being "snappy" in my post. I'm not mad at people here. I just threw out my post, then stopped and played a computer game for a while as a diversion.</p><p></p><p>Anyway, if PO had said this to difficult child the day of court it would have been one thing, but clearly (at least to me) it is these people who can't get over a grudge and keep things going on- she just said this stuff to difficult child yesterdday. The people there are apparently getting annoyed because she hasn't done her paperwork and gotten difficult child moved yet. This is typical for her- just like not taking any action on helping us before things got to this point, then CYA by blaming it on me for not complying with what she wanted.</p><p></p><p>This one- I just hope this stuff comes out when I go to court for my breaking the order- that is the ONLY order from anyone I have ever broken and I'm owning up to it. I think this might be a good way for an attny to lead into it- by having me clarify how I was compliant with mst and in home services hadn't even been close to starting.</p><p></p><p>As far as difficult child- I'm thinking about using this to support my point with him. "Well, difficult child maybe there are things I could have done differently to keep you from being someplace out of the home- but when you pull a knife on me, don't expect me to do it." I don't have any doubt that I could have taken their personality test and have difficult child home right now with the only change being that I have court ordered therapy. BS on that. And that's what they are really mad about. difficult child NEEDS to know that he can F.O.R.G.E.T. me ever putting up with more BS from these people if he's becoming violent with me, for one. For another, he ddoes need to know that I will never accept that he can get away with things like that by blaming someone else, no matter what issues they have. </p><p></p><p>Really- if a kid pulls a knife on his mom for a pack of cigs at 14yo, what would he do if he's 16yo and wants sex from a girl? What would he do if he's 26yo and wants his wife to jump up and do something? And they wanted me to bring him home with me on court ordered medications and therapy?</p><p></p><p>These people need to grow a brain. If I had let this happen and the judge had agreed to it (which frankly, they don't know if she would have or not), and difficult child had slit my throat and killed me the next time, do you think GAL or PO would be asking him to come and live with either of them?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 258163, member: 3699"] I am really sorry for being "snappy" in my post. I'm not mad at people here. I just threw out my post, then stopped and played a computer game for a while as a diversion. Anyway, if PO had said this to difficult child the day of court it would have been one thing, but clearly (at least to me) it is these people who can't get over a grudge and keep things going on- she just said this stuff to difficult child yesterdday. The people there are apparently getting annoyed because she hasn't done her paperwork and gotten difficult child moved yet. This is typical for her- just like not taking any action on helping us before things got to this point, then CYA by blaming it on me for not complying with what she wanted. This one- I just hope this stuff comes out when I go to court for my breaking the order- that is the ONLY order from anyone I have ever broken and I'm owning up to it. I think this might be a good way for an attny to lead into it- by having me clarify how I was compliant with mst and in home services hadn't even been close to starting. As far as difficult child- I'm thinking about using this to support my point with him. "Well, difficult child maybe there are things I could have done differently to keep you from being someplace out of the home- but when you pull a knife on me, don't expect me to do it." I don't have any doubt that I could have taken their personality test and have difficult child home right now with the only change being that I have court ordered therapy. BS on that. And that's what they are really mad about. difficult child NEEDS to know that he can F.O.R.G.E.T. me ever putting up with more BS from these people if he's becoming violent with me, for one. For another, he ddoes need to know that I will never accept that he can get away with things like that by blaming someone else, no matter what issues they have. Really- if a kid pulls a knife on his mom for a pack of cigs at 14yo, what would he do if he's 16yo and wants sex from a girl? What would he do if he's 26yo and wants his wife to jump up and do something? And they wanted me to bring him home with me on court ordered medications and therapy? These people need to grow a brain. If I had let this happen and the judge had agreed to it (which frankly, they don't know if she would have or not), and difficult child had slit my throat and killed me the next time, do you think GAL or PO would be asking him to come and live with either of them? [/QUOTE]
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