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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 469218" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>I wish you the best - we will be in a similar situation some day and not looking forward to the farmwars. </p><p></p><p>Perhaps for your husband it's a matter of ........all i've given up in my life and now this too......???????? Perhaps for him it's not about the money it's about that one....last....thing.....and he just can't seem to get over it......and you need to let him have this one.thing. </p><p></p><p>I could be wrong - and i know there is a family ...your family....his family....that needs him....but sometimes family has to look at the entire picture and the entire family members and what they all need......and it sounds like he's sacraficed a lot, for a long time, for everyone.....and given up so much his whole life........for that family, your family, and now this is going to be just one more straw that breaks the camels back.????? Really try to see it from his perspective on all he's ever had to give up......before you say - don't. </p><p></p><p>If you do that? And can still say don't.....with a clear conscience? Then you've explored all your options together, and left this decision without a selfish heart and no stone unturned, and will be able to look at him years from now and say - we made the decision together not to get involved - not we did this for the kids - and you once again gave up xyz for us......and regretted it in the back of your mind. </p><p></p><p>Let him have it if he needs it.......or let him let it go.....if he needs it then the two of you figure out a way to make ends meet -----and work through it. </p><p></p><p>But the final choice has got to be his for his sake. No regrets. Not one more in his life - Know what I mean?? </p><p></p><p>Hugs - this has got to be so hard on you both -</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 469218, member: 4964"] I wish you the best - we will be in a similar situation some day and not looking forward to the farmwars. Perhaps for your husband it's a matter of ........all i've given up in my life and now this too......???????? Perhaps for him it's not about the money it's about that one....last....thing.....and he just can't seem to get over it......and you need to let him have this one.thing. I could be wrong - and i know there is a family ...your family....his family....that needs him....but sometimes family has to look at the entire picture and the entire family members and what they all need......and it sounds like he's sacraficed a lot, for a long time, for everyone.....and given up so much his whole life........for that family, your family, and now this is going to be just one more straw that breaks the camels back.????? Really try to see it from his perspective on all he's ever had to give up......before you say - don't. If you do that? And can still say don't.....with a clear conscience? Then you've explored all your options together, and left this decision without a selfish heart and no stone unturned, and will be able to look at him years from now and say - we made the decision together not to get involved - not we did this for the kids - and you once again gave up xyz for us......and regretted it in the back of your mind. Let him have it if he needs it.......or let him let it go.....if he needs it then the two of you figure out a way to make ends meet -----and work through it. But the final choice has got to be his for his sake. No regrets. Not one more in his life - Know what I mean?? Hugs - this has got to be so hard on you both - [/QUOTE]
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