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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 105146" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>I'm so sorry. Sometimes it really is in the best interests of the children to split siblings. Talk to a supevisor (the higher the better) at DCF. Explain everything you've discovered and observed, especially how the boy is a danger to his sister. Someone may actually listen and be willing to let you keep the girl. I do know of one case that was very similar to yours where that worked. If you can, find some foster parents who have been doing it a long time. They know the ins and outs and may have some advice to help you in this.</p><p></p><p>It is easy to get soured on the system. Too much information is kept from potential adoptive parents. Too little services are given.</p><p></p><p>(((((HUGS)))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 105146, member: 3626"] I'm so sorry. Sometimes it really is in the best interests of the children to split siblings. Talk to a supevisor (the higher the better) at DCF. Explain everything you've discovered and observed, especially how the boy is a danger to his sister. Someone may actually listen and be willing to let you keep the girl. I do know of one case that was very similar to yours where that worked. If you can, find some foster parents who have been doing it a long time. They know the ins and outs and may have some advice to help you in this. It is easy to get soured on the system. Too much information is kept from potential adoptive parents. Too little services are given. (((((HUGS))))) [/QUOTE]
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