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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 143248" data-attributes="member: 393"><p><span style="color: DarkSlateBlue"><strong>Sharon,</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: DarkSlateBlue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: DarkSlateBlue"><strong>I hate that difficult child is being singled out in this manner - especially since it's seems that it's being done as a safety issue for both of these boys & not as a punitive gesture to difficult child (unless I'm mistaken).</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: DarkSlateBlue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: DarkSlateBlue"><strong>wm has been in your difficult children shoes many times. The only thing I can offer is that wm was allowed to have extra play time with the aide until all the other children were already back in school so he wasn't quite so embarrassed. Again, it wasn't a punitive issue for wm or the other child - more a lack of wm being able to hold it together for very long when this other child was doing his best to set wm off & succeeded for the most part. </strong></span></p><p><span style="color: DarkSlateBlue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: DarkSlateBlue"><strong>wm never understood that the other boy didn't have an aide because the other boy didn't get physically aggressive; nor did wm understand to the extent he was being goaded. </strong></span></p><p><span style="color: DarkSlateBlue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: DarkSlateBlue"><strong>All in all, a very sad situation. It made me sad for my boy - just broke my heart. I understand how you & husband are feeling. And that's just the way it is for difficult child right now.</strong></span></p><p><span style="color: DarkSlateBlue"><strong></strong></span></p><p><span style="color: DarkSlateBlue"><strong>I know we found ways for wm not to focus on the negative of the situation but that he always had an extra 5 minutes of recess time because of the aide. That worked for him </strong></span></p><p><span style="color: DarkSlateBlue"><strong></strong></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 143248, member: 393"] [COLOR=DarkSlateBlue][B]Sharon, I hate that difficult child is being singled out in this manner - especially since it's seems that it's being done as a safety issue for both of these boys & not as a punitive gesture to difficult child (unless I'm mistaken). wm has been in your difficult children shoes many times. The only thing I can offer is that wm was allowed to have extra play time with the aide until all the other children were already back in school so he wasn't quite so embarrassed. Again, it wasn't a punitive issue for wm or the other child - more a lack of wm being able to hold it together for very long when this other child was doing his best to set wm off & succeeded for the most part. wm never understood that the other boy didn't have an aide because the other boy didn't get physically aggressive; nor did wm understand to the extent he was being goaded. All in all, a very sad situation. It made me sad for my boy - just broke my heart. I understand how you & husband are feeling. And that's just the way it is for difficult child right now. I know we found ways for wm not to focus on the negative of the situation but that he always had an extra 5 minutes of recess time because of the aide. That worked for him [/B][/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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