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Was told not to bring difficult child back to school.
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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 226016" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>I don't think I can send him back even if I want to. This school really did have a lot to offer difficult child, but I think what we had left that I had hoped to salvage was lost today. The primary teacher that works so well with him, she had a nifty little "trick" when difficult child didn't want to work, she'd have him help the younger students, which he loves to do. It was a really good way to get him to work without him even being aware of it. </p><p> </p><p>But at this point, the only way I could send him back would be some sort of provision that can gaurantee if one of the 2 teachers that work well with him are there and with him ALL THE TIME - and only them. Period. Come hell or high water. And I don't see that happening.</p><p> </p><p>I should have been called when those teachers left today. That is what should have happened. </p><p> </p><p>I do know that the "bad" teacher was not present when he escalated - tho I have yet to find out what and who did escalate him. The reason I say I was ok with her restraining him is because the male teacher and another teacher had both tried and could not and he was physically attacking younger students. No, its not ok that she touched him; but I guess I would rather have her restraining him than him hurting 2 year olds, which is what he was continually attempting to do, and spitting on them when he got them down. They did attempt to get the other kids out of his way, but were unable to get them to comply, and he has been so volatile lately, they were in harm's way.</p><p> </p><p>I am not sure where we will go at this point. I don't think we can go back there, but we can't go to public yet, either, cause without a 1-on-1, it will be the same scenario - until he fails, blows up, beats the sh*t out of someone, and gets a reputation - then they'll give him the 1-on-1, but in my humble opinion, that's too late - the damage is done. I just don't know.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 226016, member: 1848"] I don't think I can send him back even if I want to. This school really did have a lot to offer difficult child, but I think what we had left that I had hoped to salvage was lost today. The primary teacher that works so well with him, she had a nifty little "trick" when difficult child didn't want to work, she'd have him help the younger students, which he loves to do. It was a really good way to get him to work without him even being aware of it. But at this point, the only way I could send him back would be some sort of provision that can gaurantee if one of the 2 teachers that work well with him are there and with him ALL THE TIME - and only them. Period. Come hell or high water. And I don't see that happening. I should have been called when those teachers left today. That is what should have happened. I do know that the "bad" teacher was not present when he escalated - tho I have yet to find out what and who did escalate him. The reason I say I was ok with her restraining him is because the male teacher and another teacher had both tried and could not and he was physically attacking younger students. No, its not ok that she touched him; but I guess I would rather have her restraining him than him hurting 2 year olds, which is what he was continually attempting to do, and spitting on them when he got them down. They did attempt to get the other kids out of his way, but were unable to get them to comply, and he has been so volatile lately, they were in harm's way. I am not sure where we will go at this point. I don't think we can go back there, but we can't go to public yet, either, cause without a 1-on-1, it will be the same scenario - until he fails, blows up, beats the sh*t out of someone, and gets a reputation - then they'll give him the 1-on-1, but in my humble opinion, that's too late - the damage is done. I just don't know. [/QUOTE]
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