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<blockquote data-quote="KFld" data-source="post: 76032" data-attributes="member: 2442"><p>He just called me with his tail between his legs. He wanted me to know he wants to sit down so we can together figure out exactly what we own and then split it right down the middle. I think the man just spent a night freaking out that I'm going to destroy him and his business. </p><p></p><p>I told him it sounds like a great idea. If we can do this 50/50 with no nastiness and both move on, it would be the best thing for both of us. </p><p></p><p>I told him I'll contact an attorney that we can use to do a legal seperation for now, figure out who gets what and take it from there. </p><p></p><p>I guess something I said last night got his attention!!!</p><p></p><p>Janet, the difference here is that I pay all the bills and I have access to the accounts online at a moments notice. He doesn't even know the pin number to check anything. Yeah, he could go to the atm and drain the account, but he'd be killing his own business and he knows that. </p><p></p><p>If someone were to have access to drain the accounts, I would be the one. I won't ever think of doing that. All I want is 50% of what I have 27 years into. </p><p></p><p>He sounds like he has realized that is the way to do it. We'll see if it lasts. My brother in law just called me with the name of an attorney, so I will make an appointment for us to both go in with our list of assets and take it from there. </p><p></p><p>I would like to come out of this with us not hateing each other and move onto our new lives.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KFld, post: 76032, member: 2442"] He just called me with his tail between his legs. He wanted me to know he wants to sit down so we can together figure out exactly what we own and then split it right down the middle. I think the man just spent a night freaking out that I'm going to destroy him and his business. I told him it sounds like a great idea. If we can do this 50/50 with no nastiness and both move on, it would be the best thing for both of us. I told him I'll contact an attorney that we can use to do a legal seperation for now, figure out who gets what and take it from there. I guess something I said last night got his attention!!! Janet, the difference here is that I pay all the bills and I have access to the accounts online at a moments notice. He doesn't even know the pin number to check anything. Yeah, he could go to the atm and drain the account, but he'd be killing his own business and he knows that. If someone were to have access to drain the accounts, I would be the one. I won't ever think of doing that. All I want is 50% of what I have 27 years into. He sounds like he has realized that is the way to do it. We'll see if it lasts. My brother in law just called me with the name of an attorney, so I will make an appointment for us to both go in with our list of assets and take it from there. I would like to come out of this with us not hateing each other and move onto our new lives. [/QUOTE]
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