My h just called me at work a few minutes ago telling me how he's probably going to have to put a restraining order on the girl he had the affair with. He then tells me that she followed him yesterday morning and was stalking him, he told her to leave him alone and that he isn't even living home anymore, and she says I know I have been driving by your house. So I said, are you kidding me, now she's driving by MY house???? He then continues to tell me that she then went out last night and got wasted and got pulled over. She tells the police she is going to call him to pick her up. She was right down the street from where he is living, so she must have found out where he lived somehow???? So she calls drunk AND HE PICKS HER UP!!!!!!!!!!!! I said, are you kidding me, why are you telling me this anyway? He said, because I know you'll see her number on the cell phone log and I just wanted to be honest with you. He said he then called her this morning and said he never wants to talk to her again and if she ever follows him or contacts him again she will call the police. I said, oh well, I don't know what to tell you. he then procedes to tell me that he didn't get one minute of sleep last night and got no work done today. Again, why are you telling me this. He said sorry to bother you, I'll let you go. Wait it gets better.......... My bff Jill calls me and says, did you talk to Dave? Apparentley he called her first and she said to him you have to tell Karen this before she finds it out for herself. She then apparentley said to him, are you going to tell her everything???? and he said yes. So I call Jill back and she says, so he told you everything and I said yes, this is what he told me. She got very quiet and said, did he tell you where she went when he picked up up??? HE BROUGHT HER BACK TO WHERE HE IS LIVING!!!!!! He says to Jill, I know P, his lesbian friend he is living with, must have saw her sleeping in my bed because I don't have a door on my room. He's telling her he doesn't know what to do because he probably just blew it with P. Never mind P!!!!!!! I have one hour left at work. When I get home I am going to call him and say, well I guess when you told Jill you were going to tell me everything, she really thought you were going to tell me everything. I'm going to tell him there is no chance in H that we will ever get back together and that he is a sick person who needs to get himself some serious help. I have never done anything to him in our 27 year marriage that would give him any reason to do what he is doing. I think somebody must have hit him in the head with a board or something. My pressure is through the roof. If I wasn't the only one in my office today I would have head out as soon as I was done with that phone call. 50 minutes and counting!!!!