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<blockquote data-quote="PennyFromTheBlock" data-source="post: 638141" data-attributes="member: 18271"><p>Oh Lil- I so get it. I went through all those emotions- and would revisit everything my difficult child had done- things that I'd not been willing to admit out loud because I felt so foolish. He'll come back, or text or ask for "just $10" to get something to eat, or "just $10 for a ride somewhere" and "why can't you give me just $10?". I've been there, done that too. I've not laid my eyes on my son in over 2 months, and the only contact we've had is when he calls or texts and wants something FROM me. I've been strong- and said no. ONE time I did get a gas card and put $20 on it for him. That was over a month ago. Not a dime since. </p><p></p><p>Evidently- they figure out ways to make it. And the lies. Oh the lies. My son STILL when he does text makes it sound DIRE- PLEASE give me money to pay for where I stay or I'll be homeless. What an absolute LIAR. He's shacked up with some girl. I know this because he foolishly continues to put his business on facebook. My son would lie to Jesus himself. </p><p></p><p>I can say- that while I have my pockets of moments- I have honestly not had this much 'peace' in years. In YEARS AND YEARS. He's grown. He made this bed. He knew what he was doing- and did them anyway. I know and you know and we ALL KNOW we did right by our kids. We weren't perfect, no one is, but we TRIED. THAT, to me, is why all of this hurts so so much. </p><p></p><p>He will be fine. Or he won't. That's on him- on my son, on all our kids. You will be fine. You have a husband on your side, in your corner. I can't imagine having that. </p><p></p><p>((hugs))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PennyFromTheBlock, post: 638141, member: 18271"] Oh Lil- I so get it. I went through all those emotions- and would revisit everything my difficult child had done- things that I'd not been willing to admit out loud because I felt so foolish. He'll come back, or text or ask for "just $10" to get something to eat, or "just $10 for a ride somewhere" and "why can't you give me just $10?". I've been there, done that too. I've not laid my eyes on my son in over 2 months, and the only contact we've had is when he calls or texts and wants something FROM me. I've been strong- and said no. ONE time I did get a gas card and put $20 on it for him. That was over a month ago. Not a dime since. Evidently- they figure out ways to make it. And the lies. Oh the lies. My son STILL when he does text makes it sound DIRE- PLEASE give me money to pay for where I stay or I'll be homeless. What an absolute LIAR. He's shacked up with some girl. I know this because he foolishly continues to put his business on facebook. My son would lie to Jesus himself. I can say- that while I have my pockets of moments- I have honestly not had this much 'peace' in years. In YEARS AND YEARS. He's grown. He made this bed. He knew what he was doing- and did them anyway. I know and you know and we ALL KNOW we did right by our kids. We weren't perfect, no one is, but we TRIED. THAT, to me, is why all of this hurts so so much. He will be fine. Or he won't. That's on him- on my son, on all our kids. You will be fine. You have a husband on your side, in your corner. I can't imagine having that. ((hugs)) [/QUOTE]
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