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<blockquote data-quote="Rotsne" data-source="post: 222569" data-attributes="member: 6326"><p>I understand your dissapointment in your daughter, but really - she is ill and she won't accept it. </p><p> </p><p>I am also worried what would happen when the police turns up in among youth which is bad company. The police has to protect themselves and what if one of the others are armed. Your daughter could be caught in the crossfire. I remember a story where a couple of parents lost their son because they called the police and the officers had to protect themselves when the youth took some gardening tools and went after them.</p><p> </p><p>Maybe the best would be for some civilians to take her in.</p><p> </p><p>Then what is next? Are you sure that they would keep her in jail? What if they release her into some kind of Residential Treatment Center (RTC) from where they release her once she turn 18 because the society is short on money. Many knows how difficult it is to get people into inpatient programs.</p><p> </p><p>What we dont know is what kind of sentence the court would give for the original crime - her stealing your money. We know that it is not a life-sentence.</p><p> </p><p>I support you to let her go, but does it have to be to a jail?</p><p> </p><p>What if you dropped the charges and let her live her own life as she is doing right now? Then you dont have to disconnect the phone or get caller-ID. She could make bad choices or she could make good ones. But she would start her adult life without a record which would make it easier for her to make the right choices and take a job.</p><p> </p><p>I don't that it is hard situation and I pray that it will turn out well in the long run.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Rotsne, post: 222569, member: 6326"] I understand your dissapointment in your daughter, but really - she is ill and she won't accept it. I am also worried what would happen when the police turns up in among youth which is bad company. The police has to protect themselves and what if one of the others are armed. Your daughter could be caught in the crossfire. I remember a story where a couple of parents lost their son because they called the police and the officers had to protect themselves when the youth took some gardening tools and went after them. Maybe the best would be for some civilians to take her in. Then what is next? Are you sure that they would keep her in jail? What if they release her into some kind of Residential Treatment Center (RTC) from where they release her once she turn 18 because the society is short on money. Many knows how difficult it is to get people into inpatient programs. What we dont know is what kind of sentence the court would give for the original crime - her stealing your money. We know that it is not a life-sentence. I support you to let her go, but does it have to be to a jail? What if you dropped the charges and let her live her own life as she is doing right now? Then you dont have to disconnect the phone or get caller-ID. She could make bad choices or she could make good ones. But she would start her adult life without a record which would make it easier for her to make the right choices and take a job. I don't that it is hard situation and I pray that it will turn out well in the long run. [/QUOTE]
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