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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 222927" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>I enjoyed reading the responses from others on this post. Everyone is so right about the detaching part, and yet, it is my true achilles heel. Like you said, we know we can no longer be the soft place they land, but yet, that is what feels "normal" to do as a mom - especially us warrior moms of sick kids.</p><p></p><p>It is a true evolution for myself, to walk this journey I am on with difficult child, and literally turn my back when the chips are falling. Every opportunity he gets he wants to pull me back in to "fix" things - and I immediately start to physically feel sick. It is very intense. It is almost like someone whipping a horse to run, but then telling them to stop. That is how I feel inside. I start to go, go, go, and fix - and then I know I can't - and it makes me physically sick until I can calm my brain down. </p><p></p><p>You are so on the right track with all of this. You are one amazing, strong, mom - I am impressed with your resolve.</p><p>Many hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 222927, member: 3301"] I enjoyed reading the responses from others on this post. Everyone is so right about the detaching part, and yet, it is my true achilles heel. Like you said, we know we can no longer be the soft place they land, but yet, that is what feels "normal" to do as a mom - especially us warrior moms of sick kids. It is a true evolution for myself, to walk this journey I am on with difficult child, and literally turn my back when the chips are falling. Every opportunity he gets he wants to pull me back in to "fix" things - and I immediately start to physically feel sick. It is very intense. It is almost like someone whipping a horse to run, but then telling them to stop. That is how I feel inside. I start to go, go, go, and fix - and then I know I can't - and it makes me physically sick until I can calm my brain down. You are so on the right track with all of this. You are one amazing, strong, mom - I am impressed with your resolve. Many hugs [/QUOTE]
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