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We offered to help - he declined, now what?
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<blockquote data-quote="overcome mom" data-source="post: 745098" data-attributes="member: 23328"><p>Can't help thinking there is more to the story. Why did he quit his job? What does he want his life to look like? You have offered now you just have to sit back and wait for him to make the next move. It's so hard to watch our children make choices that we "know" are not good ones even if they are not really "children" anymore. Even if you have the money to support he and his girl friend should you? Would you just be enabling him to continue to not work? If he does take your money or move home have you decided what limits, conditions you have on it? I feel for you, it is so hard to not worry if your children don't have the basic needs of life. Keep us updated.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="overcome mom, post: 745098, member: 23328"] Can't help thinking there is more to the story. Why did he quit his job? What does he want his life to look like? You have offered now you just have to sit back and wait for him to make the next move. It's so hard to watch our children make choices that we "know" are not good ones even if they are not really "children" anymore. Even if you have the money to support he and his girl friend should you? Would you just be enabling him to continue to not work? If he does take your money or move home have you decided what limits, conditions you have on it? I feel for you, it is so hard to not worry if your children don't have the basic needs of life. Keep us updated. [/QUOTE]
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