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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 522636" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Thanks all...</p><p></p><p>re: formal complaints.... not sure what "formal" is, legal stuff??? no. Have people complained about him, once in a while long ago. they sent me a letter maybe four years ago. But nothing this year, then again, it is all very recent. The managers son was there for the whole thing. uggg.</p><p></p><p>About country living....I dont know of rentals in the country in our county. I have looked but haven't seen anything and I dont have a very good credit rating, so I am afraid of not being accepted anywhere if I dont keep this one. I just got another letter taht I am still on the waiting list for section 8 housing, that makes five years now. </p><p></p><p>I think that would be the perfect solution too. Much much less stress.</p><p></p><p>If anything does happen, luckily I work with the disability law center already. I know she would find me help.</p><p></p><p>as for our schedule.....he had 1.5 hours of school in the a.m. and 1 hr of therapy in the pm. His Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) worker was to take him for the PM part and that has been that way for a year. When we stay home, he ends up exploding eventually, he does better when out of the house but not BY the house. (typically) He was worked up overall.</p><p></p><p>Luckily, the rest of the night after he got home was totally uneventful, even nice. I know it will go south when he starts asking how he can earn going outside again. No way in hell I am going to risk that until all of this is settled again. I know there will be fights and I am going to just do what has been working. I get dressed as soon as I wake and have medications and my stuff packed. If he kicks off I head to the car and he follows.....we spend hours at the park. (almost hit a dear yesterday, poor thing)</p><p></p><p></p><p>If this does not turn around, I guess I will have to look at the options we were discussing. Maybe someone moving in, maybe his moving out. I pray that does not happen. I dont feel like we have reached the point of no return (have been thru hard times like this before and once it got settled we had years of calm) but with this being puberty related too (I really believe that) and with his size/strength being a factor I will have to be more cautious. Breaks my heart.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 522636, member: 12886"] Thanks all... re: formal complaints.... not sure what "formal" is, legal stuff??? no. Have people complained about him, once in a while long ago. they sent me a letter maybe four years ago. But nothing this year, then again, it is all very recent. The managers son was there for the whole thing. uggg. About country living....I dont know of rentals in the country in our county. I have looked but haven't seen anything and I dont have a very good credit rating, so I am afraid of not being accepted anywhere if I dont keep this one. I just got another letter taht I am still on the waiting list for section 8 housing, that makes five years now. I think that would be the perfect solution too. Much much less stress. If anything does happen, luckily I work with the disability law center already. I know she would find me help. as for our schedule.....he had 1.5 hours of school in the a.m. and 1 hr of therapy in the pm. His Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) worker was to take him for the PM part and that has been that way for a year. When we stay home, he ends up exploding eventually, he does better when out of the house but not BY the house. (typically) He was worked up overall. Luckily, the rest of the night after he got home was totally uneventful, even nice. I know it will go south when he starts asking how he can earn going outside again. No way in hell I am going to risk that until all of this is settled again. I know there will be fights and I am going to just do what has been working. I get dressed as soon as I wake and have medications and my stuff packed. If he kicks off I head to the car and he follows.....we spend hours at the park. (almost hit a dear yesterday, poor thing) If this does not turn around, I guess I will have to look at the options we were discussing. Maybe someone moving in, maybe his moving out. I pray that does not happen. I dont feel like we have reached the point of no return (have been thru hard times like this before and once it got settled we had years of calm) but with this being puberty related too (I really believe that) and with his size/strength being a factor I will have to be more cautious. Breaks my heart. [/QUOTE]
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