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<blockquote data-quote="jetsam" data-source="post: 698435" data-attributes="member: 20689"><p>you are so right! that is why we are in the situation we are in! I agree counseling would help but my husband is not ready to commit to that and we need to go together as part of the issue is him letting son come back and enabling him. He knows all this on a conscious level but ...i don't know maybe its the "first born and only male child thing that keeps him thinking maybe this time it will be different or maybe this time i can save him from himself...I try to get through to him , i know this is futile and only my son can help himself and only if he truly wants help, which he obviously dosen't. so I'm stuck at the moment. unless I'm willing to leave my husband, which i couldn't imagine because he is a wonderful caring man, I am gonna have to try and wait it out . We are moving in june and i already told my husband i will not allow my son to move with us .I will stick to my guns on this and ultimately my husband may need to make a choice at that time...we shall see</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jetsam, post: 698435, member: 20689"] you are so right! that is why we are in the situation we are in! I agree counseling would help but my husband is not ready to commit to that and we need to go together as part of the issue is him letting son come back and enabling him. He knows all this on a conscious level but ...i don't know maybe its the "first born and only male child thing that keeps him thinking maybe this time it will be different or maybe this time i can save him from himself...I try to get through to him , i know this is futile and only my son can help himself and only if he truly wants help, which he obviously dosen't. so I'm stuck at the moment. unless I'm willing to leave my husband, which i couldn't imagine because he is a wonderful caring man, I am gonna have to try and wait it out . We are moving in june and i already told my husband i will not allow my son to move with us .I will stick to my guns on this and ultimately my husband may need to make a choice at that time...we shall see [/QUOTE]
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