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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 222761" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>I don't know... I may be of a different mind set. But kids have sex. Instead of getting mad at her about the sex. </p><p>I would be mad at her about violating the rules...</p><p></p><p>But the sex, I would be honest and talk about being truthful and wanting it to be special. Kids are going to have sex. If you are honest make it easy to talk to you and boyfriend she might actually talk to you and be honest and up front about it. </p><p>Tell you when she is ready.</p><p>She might do it safely and not get pregnant or get a disease. </p><p>Yes it would be wonderful for kids to wait... Most do not. </p><p>If you are religious it would be nice for her to wait until she is Married. </p><p>Being angry and closing her off, is only going to push her away. </p><p>My adopted dad was mean about it and would not talk with me.</p><p>I was having sex at 13... I was pregnant at 13... </p><p>My Bio-Dad was easy to talk to about sex. He got me on BC, he talked to my boyfriends... no they could not sleep over. Sure we snuck around, but it was not a priority. </p><p>Not until my Mental Illness got worse. That was in my 20's... </p><p>It wasn't perfect but it was better. </p><p>Just a different perspective. But then again I lived in SFO... land of the open mind and free sex... heck we had a bear skin rug in front of the fire place!!! LOL</p><p>Chick-a-bow-wow</p><p>sorry you are going through this, it is a tough decision I am sure no matter how prepared you think you are.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 222761, member: 3155"] I don't know... I may be of a different mind set. But kids have sex. Instead of getting mad at her about the sex. I would be mad at her about violating the rules... But the sex, I would be honest and talk about being truthful and wanting it to be special. Kids are going to have sex. If you are honest make it easy to talk to you and boyfriend she might actually talk to you and be honest and up front about it. Tell you when she is ready. She might do it safely and not get pregnant or get a disease. Yes it would be wonderful for kids to wait... Most do not. If you are religious it would be nice for her to wait until she is Married. Being angry and closing her off, is only going to push her away. My adopted dad was mean about it and would not talk with me. I was having sex at 13... I was pregnant at 13... My Bio-Dad was easy to talk to about sex. He got me on BC, he talked to my boyfriends... no they could not sleep over. Sure we snuck around, but it was not a priority. Not until my Mental Illness got worse. That was in my 20's... It wasn't perfect but it was better. Just a different perspective. But then again I lived in SFO... land of the open mind and free sex... heck we had a bear skin rug in front of the fire place!!! LOL Chick-a-bow-wow sorry you are going through this, it is a tough decision I am sure no matter how prepared you think you are. [/QUOTE]
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