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Wee has a ballgame tonight...praying daddy of the year doesn't show.
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 443455" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Have you had a talk with Wee about how she seems "nice" to him but is mentally ill and it isn't okay to go anywhere with her? That she is a bit "slow" in the head and doesn't understand that she is NOT a relative to him and is NOT to do things with him because she isn't "safe" to be around, but that you don't want to be rude so you just ignore her? </p><p></p><p>Why not tell her that as soon as DEX pays the THOUSANDS of dollars of back child support and his HALF of all the medical bills and psychiatric testing bills AND comes up with a reasonable PLAN for how to be a RESPONSIBLE father, then she can speak to Wee, but until she and dex pony up that cash and that info on responsible parenting then they need to just pretend Wee does NOT exist? After all, that is all his father ever really did anyway, isn't it? Tell her I said to go have her own kid and leave our Wee the heck alone. Or give me her name and addy and I will start playing some games with her.</p><p></p><p>Wee needs to have you explain why you don't want him going with them - that you cannot be sure they will behave appropriately because you have heard a lot of disturbing things from others and from Whackie herself. Didn't she complain about DEX's temper at one point? Also because she is unstable you cannot be sure that she won't hurt him or run off and not return him, so it isn't okay for him to do things - regardless of how fun she makes them sound. Also that she is NOT his relative and has NO position in his life and you are disturbed that she claims she does. He would be upset if some stranger walked up and started saying she was his sister or new mom and that is what Whackie is doing - telling the world that she is taking over your job, and it isn't true and you don't want him confused.</p><p></p><p>He is old enough to understand this if spoken in basic language, and to grasp the danger. He also knows she upsets you and knowing why will be a good thing for him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 443455, member: 1233"] Have you had a talk with Wee about how she seems "nice" to him but is mentally ill and it isn't okay to go anywhere with her? That she is a bit "slow" in the head and doesn't understand that she is NOT a relative to him and is NOT to do things with him because she isn't "safe" to be around, but that you don't want to be rude so you just ignore her? Why not tell her that as soon as DEX pays the THOUSANDS of dollars of back child support and his HALF of all the medical bills and psychiatric testing bills AND comes up with a reasonable PLAN for how to be a RESPONSIBLE father, then she can speak to Wee, but until she and dex pony up that cash and that info on responsible parenting then they need to just pretend Wee does NOT exist? After all, that is all his father ever really did anyway, isn't it? Tell her I said to go have her own kid and leave our Wee the heck alone. Or give me her name and addy and I will start playing some games with her. Wee needs to have you explain why you don't want him going with them - that you cannot be sure they will behave appropriately because you have heard a lot of disturbing things from others and from Whackie herself. Didn't she complain about DEX's temper at one point? Also because she is unstable you cannot be sure that she won't hurt him or run off and not return him, so it isn't okay for him to do things - regardless of how fun she makes them sound. Also that she is NOT his relative and has NO position in his life and you are disturbed that she claims she does. He would be upset if some stranger walked up and started saying she was his sister or new mom and that is what Whackie is doing - telling the world that she is taking over your job, and it isn't true and you don't want him confused. He is old enough to understand this if spoken in basic language, and to grasp the danger. He also knows she upsets you and knowing why will be a good thing for him. [/QUOTE]
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