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Well 2 weeks in jail and still causing stress
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 560072" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Good for you for not bailing him out. He has to deal with the consequences of his behavior. I think it's very important to have a plan and get the eviction process/restraining order, whatever needs to happen started to protect you and your husband. You have time while he's in jail to figure out your course of action. He made it clear he has no intention of changing. But, you can change, you do not have to put up with his behavior, you do not have to fix him, you cannot change it, you didn't cause it and you can't control it. Follow your instincts and don't let your feeling sorry for him get in the way, he's a grown man who is responsible for his choices, you are not. You're not kicking a dog while he's down, you're taking care of yourself and allowing him to do the same. You've done a good job, continue detaching in a healthy way and get as much support as you can. (((HUGS)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 560072, member: 13542"] Good for you for not bailing him out. He has to deal with the consequences of his behavior. I think it's very important to have a plan and get the eviction process/restraining order, whatever needs to happen started to protect you and your husband. You have time while he's in jail to figure out your course of action. He made it clear he has no intention of changing. But, you can change, you do not have to put up with his behavior, you do not have to fix him, you cannot change it, you didn't cause it and you can't control it. Follow your instincts and don't let your feeling sorry for him get in the way, he's a grown man who is responsible for his choices, you are not. You're not kicking a dog while he's down, you're taking care of yourself and allowing him to do the same. You've done a good job, continue detaching in a healthy way and get as much support as you can. (((HUGS))) [/QUOTE]
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