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Well 2 weeks in jail and still causing stress
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 560104" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Going to jail is basically moving out. You do NOT have to allow him to return to your home, esp as he is not paying rent to you. At least here you don't. I would send him a letter telling him that he needs to figure out where to live when he gets out because your home is not open to him. Usually the jail will help them find a place if they lose their residence when they go to jail. I wouldn't let an angry addicted person move back into my home. It isn't good for either of you to have him at your home. He is an adult and this is a fairly predictable consequence of his actions, in my opinion. I know it may feel mean, but until he is uncomfortable enough to need to change, he isn't going to. Letting him return to your home just postpones when he will hit bottom and it spreads his misery to you. You don't need that.</p><p></p><p>For all the promises he gives you, know that Janet is right, they are pretty much waw waw waw like charlie brown's teacher.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 560104, member: 1233"] Going to jail is basically moving out. You do NOT have to allow him to return to your home, esp as he is not paying rent to you. At least here you don't. I would send him a letter telling him that he needs to figure out where to live when he gets out because your home is not open to him. Usually the jail will help them find a place if they lose their residence when they go to jail. I wouldn't let an angry addicted person move back into my home. It isn't good for either of you to have him at your home. He is an adult and this is a fairly predictable consequence of his actions, in my opinion. I know it may feel mean, but until he is uncomfortable enough to need to change, he isn't going to. Letting him return to your home just postpones when he will hit bottom and it spreads his misery to you. You don't need that. For all the promises he gives you, know that Janet is right, they are pretty much waw waw waw like charlie brown's teacher. [/QUOTE]
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