Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
well, here's the word
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 506877" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>thank you- you know what kills me about this is that PO justified it by saying this is happening b./c "plan for GH fell thru"- well duh- and he couldn't have found out 3 mos ago this wouldn't work without a court order and they apparently didn't pursue a court order (wonder why)? So now difficult child remains incarcerated in a state facility for some undetermined amount of time past his release date under the pretense that it's waiting for transfer to local detention center, to be held for a "reentry program" for "po doesn't know how long". They are full of koi. First problem- it's po's fault no parole plan was in place, 2nd problem, difficult child finished his sentence, 3rd problem, a detention reentry isn't supposed to add to his time and is supposed to be 30-60 days (actually, this local jurisdiction claims 30 days); 4th problem- they still aren't saying his length of stay or requirements to get out. If this guy was any more evasive or passive-aggressive, well...I don't know but I'm thinking he could write the rulesbook on it. And central office is backing this up? They say talk to PO, PO says it's not his decision it's the decision made by central office. And i want these people teaching my son what it means to take responsibility for himself?</p><p></p><p>And before anyone chimes in concerned about me having custody- I want to remind everyone that we aren't talking about dss here- this is a kid who has always been my legal child and never been involved in dss and I have full legal authority to resume custody. I'm not incarcerated, I have never abandoned him, and I have bn=never been found as contributing to his delinquency. That doesn't mean I think I'm perfect but on no planet do I think these people are making better decisions regarding him than I am. They appear to me to be the ones punishing him for their own superficial desires.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 506877, member: 3699"] thank you- you know what kills me about this is that PO justified it by saying this is happening b./c "plan for GH fell thru"- well duh- and he couldn't have found out 3 mos ago this wouldn't work without a court order and they apparently didn't pursue a court order (wonder why)? So now difficult child remains incarcerated in a state facility for some undetermined amount of time past his release date under the pretense that it's waiting for transfer to local detention center, to be held for a "reentry program" for "po doesn't know how long". They are full of koi. First problem- it's po's fault no parole plan was in place, 2nd problem, difficult child finished his sentence, 3rd problem, a detention reentry isn't supposed to add to his time and is supposed to be 30-60 days (actually, this local jurisdiction claims 30 days); 4th problem- they still aren't saying his length of stay or requirements to get out. If this guy was any more evasive or passive-aggressive, well...I don't know but I'm thinking he could write the rulesbook on it. And central office is backing this up? They say talk to PO, PO says it's not his decision it's the decision made by central office. And i want these people teaching my son what it means to take responsibility for himself? And before anyone chimes in concerned about me having custody- I want to remind everyone that we aren't talking about dss here- this is a kid who has always been my legal child and never been involved in dss and I have full legal authority to resume custody. I'm not incarcerated, I have never abandoned him, and I have bn=never been found as contributing to his delinquency. That doesn't mean I think I'm perfect but on no planet do I think these people are making better decisions regarding him than I am. They appear to me to be the ones punishing him for their own superficial desires. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
well, here's the word
Top