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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 506887" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>klmno... Can I refresh your memory? (I'm on your side, just want to paint a very interesting picture)</p><p></p><p>Initially, you did not want him to come straight home. There were valid reasons for that. It was discussed on this forum. Therefore, you were pushing for a placement that would allow a more controlled transition.</p><p></p><p><em>Since then</em>, two things have happened:</p><p>1) You have gone into warrior mom mode. You have switched gears, and in that process, the whole way you present yourself - to yourself and others - has changed. You are in a better frame of mind to handle things. You are starting to know more about what can and can't be done, and why. YOU have changed.</p><p>2) Your son has also shown some evidence of change.</p><p></p><p>Of course, the PO isn't prepared to recognize either of those two changes. There is no good way to keep the two of you apart... so, he's doing whatever he has to do, whether it is legal or not. Its wrong. Totally. But... these "systems" are not geared for changes in mindset. To them, it doesn't exist, it can't happen. </p><p></p><p>The question remains, of course... </p><p>Now What?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 506887, member: 11791"] klmno... Can I refresh your memory? (I'm on your side, just want to paint a very interesting picture) Initially, you did not want him to come straight home. There were valid reasons for that. It was discussed on this forum. Therefore, you were pushing for a placement that would allow a more controlled transition. [I]Since then[/I], two things have happened: 1) You have gone into warrior mom mode. You have switched gears, and in that process, the whole way you present yourself - to yourself and others - has changed. You are in a better frame of mind to handle things. You are starting to know more about what can and can't be done, and why. YOU have changed. 2) Your son has also shown some evidence of change. Of course, the PO isn't prepared to recognize either of those two changes. There is no good way to keep the two of you apart... so, he's doing whatever he has to do, whether it is legal or not. Its wrong. Totally. But... these "systems" are not geared for changes in mindset. To them, it doesn't exist, it can't happen. The question remains, of course... Now What? [/QUOTE]
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