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Well I guess he beat me to it
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<blockquote data-quote="Elsi" data-source="post: 744255" data-attributes="member: 23349"><p>Oh Laura I am sorry. This is so painful and unfair after everything you have done for him. This sounds like the ex and the addiction speaking. They are so good at blaming. </p><p></p><p>I suspect this will not be the last time you hear from him. He will need you again. But the silver lining, in the meantime, is that you can reclaim your hom and have a little peace. I hope you get be yourself permission to enjoy it. </p><p></p><p>We always hope that ‘this time’ is the real deal, that they are finally ready to stop drugs/take responsibility/turn their lives around. I think the letdown after something like this is especially painful. </p><p></p><p>One day, perhaps, he will understand that you did what you did when he was younger out of love. To try to get him help and on the right path before things got to where they are now. He is not ready to see that yet. And he is not ready to be clean. </p><p></p><p>Big hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Elsi, post: 744255, member: 23349"] Oh Laura I am sorry. This is so painful and unfair after everything you have done for him. This sounds like the ex and the addiction speaking. They are so good at blaming. I suspect this will not be the last time you hear from him. He will need you again. But the silver lining, in the meantime, is that you can reclaim your hom and have a little peace. I hope you get be yourself permission to enjoy it. We always hope that ‘this time’ is the real deal, that they are finally ready to stop drugs/take responsibility/turn their lives around. I think the letdown after something like this is especially painful. One day, perhaps, he will understand that you did what you did when he was younger out of love. To try to get him help and on the right path before things got to where they are now. He is not ready to see that yet. And he is not ready to be clean. Big hugs. [/QUOTE]
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