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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 744280" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>A wise therapist told me never to do anything rash until I am calm and not angry and think it over. I have mostly used her advice. This is no time to make legal decisions.</p><p></p><p>Also i would try to stop wondering why he is so angry at you and not X.</p><p></p><p>Could be he lied about X being abusive. Son doesnt sound like he would let anyone abuse him. He has been abusing YOU. Just something to chew on. Also your son is away from X but isnt better.</p><p></p><p>Also, Son is mad at you for not throwing money at him. Thats really why. It has nothing to do with anything else. He is a drug addict and needs a lot of money.</p><p></p><p> I dont know the cost of his drug habit but on Intervention, if that show was a real show, the addicts explained that they needed tons and tons of money and did not usually get most of if legally. But some parents actually were so scared that they not only handed out hundreds day to day but gave them rides to make drug deals. It was a crazy show. Showed me stuff I never thought I'd see.</p><p></p><p>They wake up and their first thought is drugs and getting money for them. Drugs are all they can think about if they are addicted. Not their well being. Not family. Not Christmas. They start feeling sick without the drugs. Its called dope sick.</p><p></p><p>If you gave your son money every day for drugs, he would love you. He is an addict with an addict's mind.</p><p></p><p>Almost everyone has a cell phone. If he ever needs one, he can borrow one. From strangers. From anyone.</p><p></p><p>But if he has an emergency someone needs to call 911, not you. You are not a medical profesdional. A hospital will contact you. Or the cops.</p><p></p><p>I dont use FB but if your son wants to get you that way he can contact your husband, an aunt, a friend , anyone who knows you.etc.</p><p></p><p>Please try not to worry so much. I get it. But it doesnt help you. Or him. Are you in therapy or Al Anon? You may benefit much from real time help. It is too hard to do alone.</p><p></p><p>Huggz!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 744280, member: 1550"] A wise therapist told me never to do anything rash until I am calm and not angry and think it over. I have mostly used her advice. This is no time to make legal decisions. Also i would try to stop wondering why he is so angry at you and not X. Could be he lied about X being abusive. Son doesnt sound like he would let anyone abuse him. He has been abusing YOU. Just something to chew on. Also your son is away from X but isnt better. Also, Son is mad at you for not throwing money at him. Thats really why. It has nothing to do with anything else. He is a drug addict and needs a lot of money. I dont know the cost of his drug habit but on Intervention, if that show was a real show, the addicts explained that they needed tons and tons of money and did not usually get most of if legally. But some parents actually were so scared that they not only handed out hundreds day to day but gave them rides to make drug deals. It was a crazy show. Showed me stuff I never thought I'd see. They wake up and their first thought is drugs and getting money for them. Drugs are all they can think about if they are addicted. Not their well being. Not family. Not Christmas. They start feeling sick without the drugs. Its called dope sick. If you gave your son money every day for drugs, he would love you. He is an addict with an addict's mind. Almost everyone has a cell phone. If he ever needs one, he can borrow one. From strangers. From anyone. But if he has an emergency someone needs to call 911, not you. You are not a medical profesdional. A hospital will contact you. Or the cops. I dont use FB but if your son wants to get you that way he can contact your husband, an aunt, a friend , anyone who knows you.etc. Please try not to worry so much. I get it. But it doesnt help you. Or him. Are you in therapy or Al Anon? You may benefit much from real time help. It is too hard to do alone. Huggz!!! [/QUOTE]
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