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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 96890" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I think you're making a mistake in one area of your adjustment.</p><p>Overall I think you are doing a great job. What mistake?? In</p><p>your posts you are referring to "her" and what "she" has done</p><p>or is doing.</p><p></p><p>"She" is not the problem. She didn't break up your marriage.</p><p>She didn't force herself onto any property. She probably is a</p><p>very nice person who feels that her prayers have been answered.</p><p>She has a nice looking, non-violent, home and business owning</p><p>guy who fell into her life. </p><p></p><p>My Ex remarried four times. His first spouse was a younger woman</p><p>who he was introduced to a few weeks after we separated. (Yes, I</p><p>wanted the separation in hopes that our marriage could get back</p><p>on track to raise difficult child in a healthy way.) I was completely and</p><p>totally shocked. They married within two months of our divorce</p><p>although weeks before he asked to come home. That marriage was</p><p>for about seven years and then he repeated the pattern. My Ex</p><p>was never unfaithful to me or to them. He could not stand being</p><p>alone. Every single one of his wives have been very nice women</p><p>who have been polite and kind to my children/grandchildren.</p><p></p><p>I strongly advise you to forget "her". If you happen to run into</p><p>them extend your hand and say "Hi, I'm Karen!" with a big smile.</p><p>There is NO advantage to you OR to your children seeing her as</p><p>the enemy. She may be your children's stepmom. Sometimes I think I know something. This time, my friend, I KNOW what I am</p><p>talking about.</p><p></p><p>Sending sincere and caring hugs of support your way. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 96890, member: 35"] I think you're making a mistake in one area of your adjustment. Overall I think you are doing a great job. What mistake?? In your posts you are referring to "her" and what "she" has done or is doing. "She" is not the problem. She didn't break up your marriage. She didn't force herself onto any property. She probably is a very nice person who feels that her prayers have been answered. She has a nice looking, non-violent, home and business owning guy who fell into her life. My Ex remarried four times. His first spouse was a younger woman who he was introduced to a few weeks after we separated. (Yes, I wanted the separation in hopes that our marriage could get back on track to raise difficult child in a healthy way.) I was completely and totally shocked. They married within two months of our divorce although weeks before he asked to come home. That marriage was for about seven years and then he repeated the pattern. My Ex was never unfaithful to me or to them. He could not stand being alone. Every single one of his wives have been very nice women who have been polite and kind to my children/grandchildren. I strongly advise you to forget "her". If you happen to run into them extend your hand and say "Hi, I'm Karen!" with a big smile. There is NO advantage to you OR to your children seeing her as the enemy. She may be your children's stepmom. Sometimes I think I know something. This time, my friend, I KNOW what I am talking about. Sending sincere and caring hugs of support your way. DDD [/QUOTE]
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