Well, it was nice while it lasted... difficult child's car was at H's house last night. (H is a bad influence and one of the two people I said were dealbreakers when I let difficult child move back in after the sober house.) I called difficult child. He lied. I check his story out this morning. He has been calling this idiot for the last 3 weeks. I change my locks, passwords, etc. and head out to buy mace at the request of my sponsor. When I come home, I accidentally trip the alarm. Surprised to see the police after I talked with the alarm company cause that isn't normal. It was an officer I see at church but don't really know. He said he knew difficult child was off track again and figured it was him who tripped alarm. Told me he had pulled over a car recently and difficult child was in the back. Shady situation. He actually talked with difficult child and told him he was off-track. difficult child denied. Officer says where difficult child has been sleeping is a problem place. We talked and he offered to search difficult child's car. Found marijuana leaves and a pair of scissors with residue. No one is being charged but now I know. I'm actually grateful I tripped alarm and they called police. I asked both officers to please look this way when they make patrols and to take him to jail if they think he needs to go. Texted difficult child to say..."I know you lied, I need to think. Alarm is on. Don't come to house. Call me tomorrow after 12 noon." Told the officers I was going to pack up some of his things and meet him at a fast food place tomorrow. There is a local place where he can go. I'm going to print out info and put in suitcase. I don't regret allowing him to move back in 3 months ago. He made progress in several ways but just isn't ready to stay away from the idiots and drugs in this world. I don't know anything else to do. It is up to difficult child. Asking for prayers for my sanity and peace.