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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 247868" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>As you say.......not what was expected! Truthfully I had hoped for more of a win-win result. Rats.</p><p> </p><p>Obviously the situation is really complex and the bonding within the system makes it more so. I'm not sure how you can best protect both you and your son.</p><p> </p><p>My initial thought line is this...</p><p> </p><p>You may have to be evaluated by the person you have bad vibes about if he is set up as the designated tester. If so you will have to truthful but cautious not to slip in your word choices in a way that he can/could use it against you. To me it seems important to remember that you are not perfect but you have managed to remain consistent in your advocacy for your son even through atrocious and stressful circumstances. In other words, you need to be proud of yourself more than you are concerned about your imperfections.</p><p> </p><p>Perhaps ?? either the GAL or the Public Defender or the private attorneys office knows of an impartial expert who could give you a separate evaluation. to use as a rebuttal (if necessary) for the report by the State dude. I know money is tight but it might be a good idea.</p><p> </p><p>You're doing great traveling this challenging road. I'm impressed. Remember to keep your notes up to date and try to find something to focus on as a stress reliever so your brain gets a break! Hugs. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 247868, member: 35"] As you say.......not what was expected! Truthfully I had hoped for more of a win-win result. Rats. Obviously the situation is really complex and the bonding within the system makes it more so. I'm not sure how you can best protect both you and your son. My initial thought line is this... You may have to be evaluated by the person you have bad vibes about if he is set up as the designated tester. If so you will have to truthful but cautious not to slip in your word choices in a way that he can/could use it against you. To me it seems important to remember that you are not perfect but you have managed to remain consistent in your advocacy for your son even through atrocious and stressful circumstances. In other words, you need to be proud of yourself more than you are concerned about your imperfections. Perhaps ?? either the GAL or the Public Defender or the private attorneys office knows of an impartial expert who could give you a separate evaluation. to use as a rebuttal (if necessary) for the report by the State dude. I know money is tight but it might be a good idea. You're doing great traveling this challenging road. I'm impressed. Remember to keep your notes up to date and try to find something to focus on as a stress reliever so your brain gets a break! Hugs. DDD [/QUOTE]
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