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Well, SA is home although this maybe this should be on another forum.
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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 553370" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>difficult child#1 ( previously known as easy child/difficult child) is living with a difficult child who has some strong points. Of course being a difficult child there are some unacceptable bad points. I'm "really trying" to accept that this young woman is aok and I totally KNOW she wants to spend her life with difficult child#1. It's hard for me because we have been blessed to have upper middle class mores and she is "country" etc.</p><p></p><p>Recently there was a wedding invitation where an old friend of difficult child#1's who is marrying a hispanic girl who is much loved by her family. The invitation was issued originally to me and difficult child#1. The groom (a former difficult child, lol) loves me because I baked him a pie for his eighteenth birthday and had difficult child#1 deliver it to him. Nobody in his family acknowledged his birthday...just me.</p><p></p><p>Anyway the "invite" came addressed to me and difficult child #1. As you guys know I am not at 100% and really don't want to do anything that I don't thave to do. SO, difficult child#1 "accepted" the invite to the wedding and receiption for him and his girlfriend. This evening is the wedding/receiption and difficult child#1 won't wear "good" clothes because his girlfriend doesn't have any.</p><p></p><p>I know this is <em>strange</em> and likely not "appropriate" but the reception is as close to "top drawer" as you can get in our community and easy child/difficult child or difficult child#1 is not wearing "appropriate" clothes because his girlfriend does not own more than one dress. It's bothering me that my kid is going to a wedding reception at the "top" place in our city and is not "dressing up" because his BiPolar (BP) girlfriend can't. I don't know whether I should be proud or conflicted. Life is weird. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 553370, member: 35"] difficult child#1 ( previously known as easy child/difficult child) is living with a difficult child who has some strong points. Of course being a difficult child there are some unacceptable bad points. I'm "really trying" to accept that this young woman is aok and I totally KNOW she wants to spend her life with difficult child#1. It's hard for me because we have been blessed to have upper middle class mores and she is "country" etc. Recently there was a wedding invitation where an old friend of difficult child#1's who is marrying a hispanic girl who is much loved by her family. The invitation was issued originally to me and difficult child#1. The groom (a former difficult child, lol) loves me because I baked him a pie for his eighteenth birthday and had difficult child#1 deliver it to him. Nobody in his family acknowledged his birthday...just me. Anyway the "invite" came addressed to me and difficult child #1. As you guys know I am not at 100% and really don't want to do anything that I don't thave to do. SO, difficult child#1 "accepted" the invite to the wedding and receiption for him and his girlfriend. This evening is the wedding/receiption and difficult child#1 won't wear "good" clothes because his girlfriend doesn't have any. I know this is [I]strange[/I] and likely not "appropriate" but the reception is as close to "top drawer" as you can get in our community and easy child/difficult child or difficult child#1 is not wearing "appropriate" clothes because his girlfriend does not own more than one dress. It's bothering me that my kid is going to a wedding reception at the "top" place in our city and is not "dressing up" because his BiPolar (BP) girlfriend can't. I don't know whether I should be proud or conflicted. Life is weird. DDD [/QUOTE]
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