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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 377950" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>What you are living with is an absolute soul draining existence. It's amazing you are still standing. One advantage is that husband has his own place. Set up a routine that he has the kids either every other night or every other weekend and one night a week. He wants divorced, then he needs to act as a single parent and take up some of the slack. </p><p></p><p>No matter what you do, the kids are going to be upset about dad being away. Nothing you can say or do will make that go away. All you can do is remind them that you love them and that they will be cared for. Try not to be negative. Read up on how to help kids through a divorce. Maybe try therapy for the kids and for you if possible. </p><p></p><p>Rebuilding your life and home without husband is traumatic for anyone. Give yourself the chance to feel bad and angry. Deep down, you married this man because you loved him. It has to be a disappointment that this went wrong. </p><p>Hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 377950, member: 3"] What you are living with is an absolute soul draining existence. It's amazing you are still standing. One advantage is that husband has his own place. Set up a routine that he has the kids either every other night or every other weekend and one night a week. He wants divorced, then he needs to act as a single parent and take up some of the slack. No matter what you do, the kids are going to be upset about dad being away. Nothing you can say or do will make that go away. All you can do is remind them that you love them and that they will be cared for. Try not to be negative. Read up on how to help kids through a divorce. Maybe try therapy for the kids and for you if possible. Rebuilding your life and home without husband is traumatic for anyone. Give yourself the chance to feel bad and angry. Deep down, you married this man because you loved him. It has to be a disappointment that this went wrong. Hugs. [/QUOTE]
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