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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 254489" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>I think this is highly likely. She's been in a long-term pattern of making sure she can always blame someone else. This way if she is found, she can try to blame your sister, simply because your sister had the number. Even if she is found purely by accident, she will in her head be telling herself that it's because someone gave the number to the police so they could do that fancy tracking stuff with it to monitor for calls from that number, and so find her.</p><p></p><p>So part of her wnts to be found, but wants to be able to blame someone else for it, should getting fond turn out to be an unpleasant experience.</p><p></p><p>So she's STILL not willing to take personal responsibility!</p><p></p><p>I also think she's testing your sister, to see if she can trust her.</p><p></p><p>Thing is - whose number is it really? Is it just the cell phone of someone who is in her general vicinity? Is it a phone she borrows? A phone near where she works or lives? I understand tat a lot of phones are treated as disposable - so is this number still even relevant?</p><p></p><p>And that last would tell me that it's probably not worth mentioing the number itself.</p><p></p><p>You don't know the number. She has been in touch with your sister. If the police want to know more, they cna ask your sister. Then it's up to HER to have to make the difficult choice.</p><p></p><p>It really isn't fair of your daughter, to do this to either you or her aunt. By running like this, then calling and leaving a contact phone number, she is putting you in the position of accessory. If she happens to commit a nasty crime, then you two could be in real hot water, if you could have prevented it.</p><p></p><p>But if you turn her in, where is her personal rsponsibility?</p><p></p><p>I agree that you shouldn't turn her in, chances are your information is too old now anyway. But she's playing you both. Sounds like she's been doing this for a lot longer than you realise, perhaps. SHe talks nicely to you, to make you think it's all better now - that's when she wants you to feel happy and relaxed about her, so this can buy her time to get away even further. She may be a legal adult, but inside she's a naive kid who is living in la la land.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 254489, member: 1991"] I think this is highly likely. She's been in a long-term pattern of making sure she can always blame someone else. This way if she is found, she can try to blame your sister, simply because your sister had the number. Even if she is found purely by accident, she will in her head be telling herself that it's because someone gave the number to the police so they could do that fancy tracking stuff with it to monitor for calls from that number, and so find her. So part of her wnts to be found, but wants to be able to blame someone else for it, should getting fond turn out to be an unpleasant experience. So she's STILL not willing to take personal responsibility! I also think she's testing your sister, to see if she can trust her. Thing is - whose number is it really? Is it just the cell phone of someone who is in her general vicinity? Is it a phone she borrows? A phone near where she works or lives? I understand tat a lot of phones are treated as disposable - so is this number still even relevant? And that last would tell me that it's probably not worth mentioing the number itself. You don't know the number. She has been in touch with your sister. If the police want to know more, they cna ask your sister. Then it's up to HER to have to make the difficult choice. It really isn't fair of your daughter, to do this to either you or her aunt. By running like this, then calling and leaving a contact phone number, she is putting you in the position of accessory. If she happens to commit a nasty crime, then you two could be in real hot water, if you could have prevented it. But if you turn her in, where is her personal rsponsibility? I agree that you shouldn't turn her in, chances are your information is too old now anyway. But she's playing you both. Sounds like she's been doing this for a lot longer than you realise, perhaps. SHe talks nicely to you, to make you think it's all better now - that's when she wants you to feel happy and relaxed about her, so this can buy her time to get away even further. She may be a legal adult, but inside she's a naive kid who is living in la la land. Marg [/QUOTE]
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